You are spot on. I do have a ton of insecurities and am not comfortable even accidentally hurting anyone. I always felt like everyone should be friends with someone other than me because i am not good enough to make them happy.
Actually you would probably be the perfect one to be friends with because you're very open to people's emotions and if you say you're a judgmental sometimes that just may be that you're quick to inform a person when you feel they're doing something not right or that they are not meeting their full potential it seems to me like you're a person who people just need to be patient with and open-minded
Maybe you are right. Thanks for your comment. It was very thoughtful. Honestly, just my opinion but i don't think most people like being judged and i judge myself and others 😞
Actually people appreciate it. it is really one of my best skills and it really depends on how you come out you might want to just practice on your delivery find the positive twist to every judgmental commentexampleThe question Do you think this hat looks good on me? (No)Now how to respond no you don't One wayNo it makes you look like an ass. People will think you look stupid in it.The other wayIt doesn't compliment your best facial features. I do not recommend it.
Wow!!! Yeah that's so true. I am more of the first one. I wish i were better at having better social skills like yours!!
I was studying psychology as a majorI took all psychology electives in high school unfortunately I was never able to finishBut I did come across some very good booksYou'll see in my post that I always recommend them because I read them I love them and I feel they changed meFive love languagesHow to make friends and influence people in the digital ageHis needs her needs
Cool! Thanks for the book recommendations.
My personality is of judgmental or isfj. I'm very judgmental. I fear people just want to use me. I think i am boring. I think people judge me a lot too like i am not perfect enough for them etc etc.
I think that your a sweet girl who deserves happiness, as simple as that...
Thanks Tony 😃😁☺😊
Your welcome dear 😊
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