Why do women tell men to stop being bitter about rejection when they don't approach nearly as much as men do?

- The ones you're talking about obviously haven't been rejected or can handle it. They have little or no insight into the affects rejection can have on some people. Especially if they face constant rejection . If something affects you emotionally, mentally or physically you have a right to vent how you feel. If someone doesn't want to listen, they don't have to, but that doesn't mean you have to "shut up and put up"It's easy to say accept and move on, but not everyone is capable of doing that. Ask the person how to, if they say that to you1|80|0Is this still revelant?
- Asker5 mo
By far you are the only woman that i agree with. And I'm not talking about being bitter or angry everyday for being rejected. Buy in that moment, i don't think it's wrong to be angry or vent
It's your right to feel anger and vent. Bottling it up can do far more damage to a person. Venting how they feel in that moment can prevent the hurt and anger from consuming you. People deal with rejection in different ways.
Thank you for the MHO
- I’m going to be approaching nearly all the men since I plan on getting off the apps and the only way to tell if a good looking guy is single is to ask0|60|0Is this still revelant?
That’s your only chance. No man will approach in person these days. I sure as hell won’t. It’s creepy and possibly illegal depending on where you live to approach and talk to a single woman doing random shit anywhere outside tinder lmao
Interesting, that's the last thing you would expect a woman to do, it seems to be against a woman's nature to approach a guy even if she's really attracted to him or strongly desires him.
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2746- GREAT QUESTION. I doubt many know how constant rejection even feels.0|10|0
- Anonymous5 moMost females are scared to be rejected and many end up waiting or alone because of it0|20|0
- Anonymous5 moBut we tell them to stop being bitter about their periods and their lower incomes, and we are assholes lol.1|00|0
I think if women want to do something about unequal pay- power to them! ✊
Because at the end of the day it isn’t about men or women.
A woman just wants to bring home a fair days pay for a fair days work and actively contribute to their household income- make their husband/ parter proud.
- This question make no sense2|10|2
What does women saying don't be so bitter have to do with the fact they don't ask men out?
Its like a rat telling you its easy to fight pitbulls, knowing good enough that the rat has never actually fought a pitbull
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@ZumbiGeneral So women are to blame because YOU can’t get a date? Lol Do you not consider other factors that are causing women to constantly reject you? What about going inside and finding the root cause or WHY you’re being rejected. And don’t say looks have anything to do with it, because I’ve seen plenty of “unattractive” men that get girls. There clearly is something in YOU that’s repelling women and it’s sure as fuck NOT because we have it “easier” and don’t ask men out. So yeah, your question does NOT make sense. Hook, line and sinker.
And we might have uncovered the why. You have quite literally conditioned for it to be the way they are.
As I said before, women are often indifferent to men who have never dated and often go for only the top >30% while guys go for 80%<. Help the guys worldwide dedicating to dropping demand for women and decreasing their value. They do NOT have any more/less value than men. Period. Swallow that pill already.
@errorgoodnameunfound Are you that men and women are pretty much equal when it comes to dating? Because yes, they are.
@gisellelight Im saying in general, not just dating. But don't get your hopes up about agreeing with me too much, as I willl be blunt when talking about what actual gender equality is. REAL gender equality has THESE requirements too many women reject outright:\
-Women are no longer valued for being able to gett pregnant anymore than men are for being able to give seed
-women must draft for any position, including front line combat.
-women must be willing to work ANY job as a man, even a gutter cleaner or construction worker
-no more petty things like expecting politeness from a man more than a man does
-no more petty things also means no more expecting "gentlemen" like behavior of holding doors and that whole disney princess bs
And very importantly to REALLY even things out:
-no more power of women's sexuality, because the either same amount of men should be desirable just by their body alone (meaning 80%+ of them) or sex bots need to be extremely mainstream so the value in a person for sexual things other than strictly baby making is obsolete. This means Onlyfans, Hooters, strip clubs, many waitressing jobs, modeling, fashion, etc would ALL be crushed from low demand.
So think twice about this and get back to me.
- Anonymous5 moThis is why I want to drop out of trying to date you get made to be a bad person0|10|0
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@GlitterFairy16 Children should be seen and not heard. Go to bed, the adults are talking.
@Juxtapose just because im 16 doesn't make you any better or smarter than me, idiots come in all different shapes and sizes so don't worry about fitting in with that circle. So why don't you go back to the retirement home and get back to murder she wrote.
Using my age as a argument isn't really a valid argument if that's the only thing you have going against me
You saw a guy get discouraged & then put him down. This isn't an intellectual debate, you are genuinely a shithead 16 year old who doesn't know shit.
@Juxtapose i may be 16 but i don't need to use nasty words to argue. Im the child yet your the one using terms like "shit head" and telling me i know nothing. Like a spoilt child talking to their parents
@Juxtapose i don't really have hang ups about it, i just think people who have to use them to argue there point are stupid and have to swear because they can't actually think of anything good to say
@GlitterFairy16 "you're"
"mum's"
Nice try but I live hundreds of miles away from any relatives and unlike you, know what it's like to pay bills.God im 16 and your 30 and sound like a 13 year old girl who's watch mean girls for the first time
@GlitterFairy16 Ok this is getting painful to read, and I regularly argue neo-nazis, sjws and creationists. Good job on out doing them with your stupidity.
GTAB.@Juxtapose what's paying bill got to do with anything, never mentioned that and if you must know i pay towards my familys council tax, electricity, water and food and i pay my own phone bill and as i earn decent money training in telecommunications for the British Army.
I think your just getting upset you got upstaged by a 16 year old when you tried to make out like i was stupid just because of my age and ended up looking stupid in return.@Juxtapose lol i work with people with special learning disabilities too in my free too. So if you're struggling to read im here to help too
Lol im actually enjoying winding you up. your so thick. You "regularly argue neo-nazis" what over your keyboard 😂.
I hate to break it you but as someone who works in the army. We stopped fighting with the nazis some years back so your services are no longer needed. Them men you cat fight with online are merely just cowardly little men like yourself who like to but a costume on when they fight with people online to feel special. You are no savior of the world just because you got in a couple keyboard battles calling each other "shit heads" and then go back to cry to mummy
- At least we ask out the person that matches us.1|00|3
So he should just be underconfident and never approach women he feels that might be “out of their league”?
- You sound so bitter1|30|10
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Wut? Woman, please, do you not know the internet? Go back to the DPRK already. LOL They could always use more people with fewer opinions. :)
@errorgoodnameunfound I’m not North Korean AND I’m older than you, kiddo. Boys mature at the age of 30, so I’m arguing with a teenager.
Oh I am SO SO sorry. My mistake madam. Where in fact are you from? You do not like any opinions differing from you own, so logic dictates you prefer dictatorships... so perhaps... Saudi Arabia? Maybe Iran? Asalaamu Aleikum! Maybe Cuba or Venezuela? I love me some commie gals who don't get sarcasm and CONTINUE to feed trolls no matter what. :)
Also, Im about a year younger than you woman. Not my problem if you confuse your lack of understanding sarcasm with immaturity. WELCOME TO THE INTERNET PRINCESS JASMINE! :D
@errorgoodnameunfound I’m sorry. I don’t spend a lot of time on the internet. That’s my problem. My life is OFFLINE. It’s probable not a concept you understand, but mach mal weiter.
"Reply by a user you blocked or were blocked by"
That shows up in place of his answer. You will see that a lot if you talk with enough people.Uh, lady, if you haven't noticed, most people spend a lot of time online and increasingly so everyday. YOU are considered the weird one and OLD for thinking the opposite. Lying about your age just like lying about the country you are from. Tsk. If you like being offline so much, then go ahead, log off right now, and go ride some camels or something Jasmine. :D
@ranger3456 By the way, meant to say earlier, that was a SPOT on comeback! Kuddos sir, kuddos!!
- Sometimes boys can't understand girls1|00|0
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