Some may say he's a little older
He is older, but so what? The. underlying presumption of such thinking is that you can only date someone your age, which is nonsense. I had a 21 year old girlfriend when I was 27/28.
Lol what you think about what the girl says
I have no idea what she'll say
No the girl that posted the little rant in here. Apparently she took really personal
Dont pay any attention to the nonsense spewed by the one idiot who says it's a problem- the fact she considers guys "pedophiles" for liking 21 year old women shows how extreme her beliefs are on this topic.
Yeah that's the reason my brother has been holding back from asking the girl out. I think they look good together and have great chemistry but he's self conscious about the age and he's afraid of what others might say
Dont let that narrow-minded and illogical mentality hold him back from a great girlfriend.
Well to me is that much of and age difference is not like he's 20 years older than her. But he even feels guilty for liking a girl a little younger. Hope I dont feel the same when I get to his age
He shouldn't feel guilty- they re consenting adults.
Yeha I guess he was second guessing since he's a little more than 5 years older than her and she's even closer to my age and the girl even downvoted you lol
I know who it was that downvoted all of us- she once said her father would get violent with any older guy she'd bring home.
Wow you know who she is!!
Yes, I do
Hmm well with a father like that no wonder why she has that type of mentality
Why is that bad?
It’s ok for a 29 yr old girl to date a 21 yr old guy too
Well some people might say there's a little of an age difference
Okay. I think it’s okay if they both like each other.
They do but the guy which is much brother is hesitant for the age difference and its afraid he'll be judged , you dont think is too much of an age gap?
I don’t think people will judge him. Except maybe girls his age who get jealous cause they think guys prefer younger women.
Do get girls get jealous of that lol? Well honestly he feels guilty for liking a younger girl which I don't think he should feel like that
He shouldn’t feel guilty
That's what I said but that age difference I guess makes him feel guilty and is not like they're 20 years apart
I agree with u
Yeha like I don't know why some people make such a big deal about it. Makes guy like my brother for just liking a girl a bit younger I don't think he can help who he's attracted to
Does she like him back?
Yeah and personally I think its pretty obvious!! The girl always stares at him when he's not looking and they got so much chemistry that's why I try to encourage him but he has that fear
He should go for it
That's why I always tell him but he holds for the fact that he just turned 29 and she's 21 and he's like paranoid that he's gonna criticize and stuff like that I mean I don't want to jump so far into the future but I think that's the one he should marry.
Might be a little soon for that
Yeah but I see them interact and like she makes him so happy and it's not an easy thing to my brother has delt with depression and its hard for him to open up and she does it like nothing.
Yeah but like I said that's where the age argument always comes up and he even has friends telling him she's a little young
They’re totally jealous
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Lol in some states 16 is the consenting age
I know but I thought in those places they had a minimum of 3 years difference approved by the law.
We are in Europe! Id kill myself if I lived in america LOL.
Jeez. European laws are crap.
Says the country that has school shooting, racist mentality since the 1800s no law set school curriculum for schools, huge debt for college and hospitals. Biggest corona cases, and etc. Try again, honey.
Is not like Europe ever faced racism like in the US, and is not like I am from the US 🕵️
Also not to mention some US states have the same laws
Lol I'd say it pretty normal
Is not me tho but yeha so you didn't mind the age gap
Well that's what's stopping it
It's already legal. If you get the internet's approval, will you carry on with this love affair?
Lol it's not me and I'm aware that its they're just holding from taking the next step for the opinion of the age difference.
You dont think he'll be a little old for her?
Not at all... perfectly normal
Yeha my brother is been hesitant about it because of the age difference.
I was 40 and had a 25yo girlfriend, that's an age difference lol
Yeah lol but neither of you minded the age gap
We weren't bothered at all