That’s admirable and good of you
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A stay-at-home mom wouldn’t be poverty line, unless you’re talking about the man not making that great of an income.
Either way, I think values are more important to life happiness. Money is a small part of it but not even counted if you all have true happiness.
Average income is about $45k gross pay. Four children and two adults: that's going to be extremely tight. Imagine one still has taxes, student loan debt, average rent, food, and other costs of living, and that number quickly falls to nothing. With one child and at-home parent, sure.While I agree that life means more than just money, the US has a severe economy problem where half the country has nothing but hand to mouth living, or even government assistance. Survival matters, and thanks to wage stagnation or decreasing, layoffs and covid issues this year, many commonfolk are going to be in dire straits. That the government put a general moratorium on evictions until the end of the year is another good way to understand how widespread the issue is. I think we have a bad decade ahead.While I would love to have multiple children some day, I don't think it's in the cards, and I doubt we'll have major reforms that actually allow living wages from the bottom up.
You do have a good point. 👍🏼
I mean, your facts are right, no doubt, but I think your point is dependent on your outlook on life. Some people love life and appreciate it every day, and some of that does come from parenting.
@Yads_Is_Back bc someones wants to do parenting so is it correct to bring a new life? Can't you adopt orphans who are already left out by their parents? It makes more sense to me, if we keep genetic BS aside!You want to have kids, we all are dealing with this pandemic your will kids also have to deal with it just bc of you want to have kids.
I’m not having them RIGHT NOW lol but bringing any kid into the world has its positives and negatives. Just depends on how you let them appreciate life and love it and make it worth it for them 😊❤️
I love that ❤️
typo *peak fertility*
There are stay-at-home moms and such. You can make it work if you want to, like with anything else. Not saying that’s my plan though
Yeah you can make it work but it's hard very hard. I personally think that 3 you can do effectively but 4, 5 or 6? Then your getting way over your head. Once again just the opinion of someone who doesn't even like kids
Kids are nothing less than beautiful human beings, a very great blessing. All the more reason to have them if you give them a happy life and do for them instead of doing for you.I think your definition of “selfish” might be backwards.
Yes that's all nice. Good parenting goes a long way. But I mean selfish as in you dtf about the poor planet. The harm we do to it because we are too many. More people more problems. I just hope all your kids Become good people. And good luck on how tired and drained you will be. No more time to focus on yourself. Isn't it better to have fewer and defecate more time to them. How are you going to focus on so many people?
I agree but I think that goes to determine WHO has kids, which is a much bigger issue.
Are you really 16? You might wanna wait a few years
Haha, yes I am. But then again, this idea is supported by my parents and I'm a very traditional person so I doubt it'd change much in the future. I also intend on marrying at 21-23, and I've noticed that my years are going by faster and faster.
Let’s just say we have no worries there. And that’s only if you pay for the college
Be more optimistic, mi amigo :)
I'm trying yads... I'm trying.. 😞
Sounds like you have some work to do 🤣
She can’t have them magically by herself. Get off GAG and surprise her and do your business lol
Hahaha, we're not quite ready yet. Probably in 2 years from now we'll work on becoming parents.
I’m sorry. But it’s good that you know what to look for
Oh, you know what labor feels like? How bad was your epidural?I’m kidding lol but lots of people say that but I see it more as a beautiful moment
It is a beautiful moment and if you can handle it go for it
Oh so you think I’m a weakling
Nope you got baby making hips you can pop out 4 kids easy
Calleté while you’re ahead 😂
He he he