Interesting insight. I find there are two kinds of sexy. I wrote something about this recently, but this calls for mention again. One is body parts. It's the half naked pictures so many women post in their profiles or on sites that seem to be all about that kind of thing. It's raw. It makes me want to have sex with them. If I was into one nighters, that would be a good start. But that's all it is, perfunctory relief of a bodily need. It's so fleeting it isn't enough and leaves you empty. I learned that a long time ago. But the other kind is a much deeper and long lasting kind of sexy that has nothing to do with the body at all. I can't even say it has to do with the mind, the personality or anything else observable. Maybe you could call it the soul, but I can't put my finger on it even at my age. I know it when I see it. It's so much more rare and valuable than body part sexy. So no, the wrong looks don't guarantee the friend zone. There is something much more attractive lurking in the wild if only you can cross its path.
The guys who are “too timid” to ask you out usually have the following problems: 1. They have asked a girl out when they were younger and the girl humiliated them. Yes it’s up to him to get over that but some girls can be nasty 2. They asked a girl out, she said yes and she decided to friendzone him. I got a hard lesson with this when I was 17. I asked out a 16 yr old lifeguard. All she did was bitch about her ex on the 1st dare. Back then I didn’t know better. I would tolerate that for 10 seconds from 21 on. 3. The have been brainwashed by bs feminism and/or a domineering mother. Like asking a girl out is “sexual harassment” if she’s not interested. They actually sadly believe that and do what women “say” they want. 4. Yes they lack confidence. That’s their problem and not yours. In those cases is best to say “hey I respect you. But I’m not interested.” Don’t assume they are fine with being just friends. Anyway what you said above is exactly why I always make a move early (even if I want to wait myself). Show the girl where I stand. It either works or I get rejected. But #metoo has made that all much more scary in the last few years. So get used to more “timid” guys who really mean well.
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So why wouldn't you just stop being friends?
I used to see him everyday. But yeah npw we're not friends anymore
Once you've lived long enough and are experienced enough, there are no more exceptional cases. This is my lament. I crave the exception I never seem to find now that I need it.
I don't know how to tell you this, so I'm just going to be blunt, ... virtually every straight guy expects that they should get to have sex with every women they come into contact with, based solely on the fact you're the opposite sex.EVERY GUY.
@RACSKC0B well that's their issue not mine. Women don't own men nothing especially sex. Plus not all men expect sex from women, some men are gay.
Or she thinks she can do better even if she thinks you look good. The fact you kiss her azz tells her you’re low value
Dam I guess I made that mistake when I called this guy “friend” 🤪 fml
Yeah most likely.
Thats me being awkward and dumb lmfao
Just be flirty, usually girls can change that whole friend thing in this case
I will try but he hsnt texted me back since our last small talk 🤣🤣🤣
You are so wrong. Take some responsibility for you lack of action learn what to do.
@Kiss_Me lack of action hahaha whatever you say.