I was with a girl the other day and it was the first time wed even kissed and she got mad at me because I was being too gentle or something, she then told me "why can't you be a man and just take me". WTF. I asked a few of my female friends and they said the same thing " be a man" "grab me and take me". It's so crazy to me. Especially in today's world I don't want to do anything that would make a girl uncomfortable but now not only in the bedroom but even just kissing I'm supposed to be super aggressive. I don't know anymore man. Sure i could do that, but all it takes is someone who isn't into that and suddenly I'm a creep. I don't know what to do. Is this what women really want?