PS, women like @MzAsh talk a lot about women having higher standards and all but she just does that because she tries to get other women to pay her as a relationship coach. She herself has always had very low standards and that is partly she is always so defensive about topics like this one. If you know her and her husband you know her standards are actually quite low.
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You right except for 2 things: 1. child birth isn't that big of a risk. There was a recorded 1% chance of dying from child birth.2. Its not actually in their nature to be picker. Women can afford to be pickier because men are a whole lot more thirsty for women than women are thirsty for men. That creates a dynamic where women have a plethora of options in comparison to men where they can choose their best option.