seeing as your female and at a higher risk of problems from meeting, set the meeting to your terms letting him take the majority of risks. all those i have ever offered to meet i have tried encouraging to set themselves up with some sort of security layer. be it a setting familiar to them and not to me or even having some sort of friend/s nearby-ish watching her back. its more about her being comfortable with the meeting to me. i can handle dangers quite well.
i do that also to teach by example incase we never meet or do meet but dont work out so she can be safe if she ever meets someone else later down the road.
and before someone asks. not that i will do anything creepy etc but am still somewhat a stranger being met, no matter what and i know how dangerous that can be. and of course i insist on it being a public setting for safety of both of us
I'm not religious
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No. She's in Uzbekistan and they aren't letting Americans in because of COVID. Her situation is complicated so I'm trying to get her to Australia (she has a perm resident visa) then visit here there once they open
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