Would you wait or move on?

I met this guy online and we’ve been talking for a little over a year now but we haven’t met cause he lives 13 hours away from me. I’ve tried to make the effort to go and see him, but he essentially said he is’t ready cause he has his own personal issues in the way. I get it, what he’s going through sucks, but at the same time, I don’t wanna waste my time.

We both have feelings for each other, but it’s very clear who is into the other more. I don’t want to end things before meeting him cause it’ll feel like a waste of the year and a bit we spent getting to know each other, but is he ever going to be ready to meet? Or is he just going to lose his feelings for me and end things without us meeting and leave me here heartbroken looking like an idiot? I just don’t know what to do.
Would you wait or move on?
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