What do you mean by actively pursuing?
What if he just asks to hang out with you alone?
I mean giving clear signs he is seriously interested. Asking me to hang out alone does seem like making a move. In fact, if someone DOESN’T ask to see me one-on-one, that’s how I know they don’t like me. If a guy asks, then I’ll think he’s into me.
But what If nothing progresses from there
Then, I’d think he either lost interest or was never serious about me in the first place and was just using me to pass the time because he was bored.
Why is it so hard for you to show interest for someone you like? I don’t understand. No one really wants to put up with a lazy, dull personality with no apparent passion. I’m not saying that’s how you truly are but it’s how you will come across if you just don’t ever make moves or pursue goals, romantic or otherwise. You can’t expect people to have such an imagination that they will assume all the best things about you despite zero evidence that you actually feel anything deep.
Because im afraid she doesn’t feel the same way.
I think a lot of her.
Then show her.
Damn. Man up a bit. The trick to confidence is faking it. You can't be this shy online while anon. TELL HER! Or just talk to her at all. Small conversations. Make an excuse if you have to but don't let it be that way everytime after. Ask to borrow something from her or tell her you got a "free" drink/candy bar/anything when you bought one, and only need one of them. Give the "free" one to her.The idea is that just spending time with her shows you want to invest something. A conversation is worth a lot
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