you can't even say it's about looks either. My experience irl is that I'm a handsome dude, from actually straight friends admitting it in a matter of fact. My past gfs, have been told that or checked out, or free drinks, flirting from attractive women. I had one girl, maybe she had a bad experience with such dudes. But luckily people don't usually perceive me as a jerk. But a girl my friend knew, had a friend and they wanted me to get with the girl's friend. I wasn't really intersted. But the girl who had the friend, but she's in a serious relationship with a dude. But she was talking about me to my friend and said I'm a good looking guy, but asked if I'm a dbag ha. But I've haven't been able to get a date on bumble or tinder or well I don't swipe right on any woman on tinder. There's a lot of weird women on it or fat chicks, etc. But I've had matches and some go well and set up a meet up only to be ghosted. So no, you can be good looking yet still not have succes for online dating. Maybe I'm good looking in person, but not photogenic, who knows. But irl works much better and it's not just my personality but getting cute girls sometimes a bit "wide eyed" toward me says a person can be physically attractive but it just doesn't translate for some
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I don't even believe that, unless dating apps are more likely to be successful for a guy if he lives in a big city. My irl experiences, whether it's family or friends, girls checking me out, flirt, etc that I'm a good looking dude. If I'm ever dating a cute girl, there's no surprise of like what she's doing with me, but friends or acquiantances would be surprised if I'm not dating a girl that's convetionally attractive and it's not just because of my personality. I had a cute girl just a few months ago, she could've gotten in trouble not charge me for a large cappcucino at dunkin donuts. There was an older lady infront of me that saw that and when I walked out she smiled and said that girl was flirting with me. There's definitely more stuff, but I'll stop there, yet no dating app success. Some matches and convo that seem to go well. but then ghost for a meet up.
You are that ugly?
On tinder I don't know if that's the main reasonI made a girl profile to find outAnd i looked at the guys pages and a lot of them got fancy pictures almosy model likeOr have pictures where there are at interesting placesI just got non professional pictures of me in my room So i see what I'm competing with it makes sense
Step up your game
Being hot helps in both situations of course. Hot and boring beats ugly and boring.