I think the fact we don’t hang out bothers him
I take it that you two are texting and that he wants to hang out some time. Well, if he wants that and you don’t and you told him that, then he has to deal with it. Don’t think so much about whether or not you’re leading him on. Just be honest with him. How he deals with that should not be your concern.
I agree. I guess we shouldn’t communicate
Yes, it does sound a bit like he still wants more from you than friendship. And if he can’t get over that, it doesn’t make much sense to communicate more.
I told him we are friends
I think he would if I told him earlier. Communication was never there. I’m sure this isn’t a friendship he wants because we don’t hang out
Oh then my guess is he doesn’t see you as anything.
I don’t want to hang out with him
Block him and don’t look back. That should do it.
You should be honest then, I wouldn’t just block someone without telling them. I wouldn’t block them at all it’s not like there hurting you you or sending you things. If your a Christian as me being a follower of Christ Jesus calls believers to love the unlovable the people that are hard to love. God puts different people for a reason half of the time we never know what those reasons are. I wouldn’t be mean about it and he hasn’t done anything to you that border line like you need block him. I would give him a call not text and be adult to talk to the person or even face to face. It’s better off that way.
I know he likes me but I never said I’m not interested. I told him we are friends
Any chance he could think that you might potentially be open to something more than friends? I mean the fact that you're friends doesn't exclude a romantic relationship.
I never gave him indication because we Don’t hang out. I believe by doing that we avoid any confusion
Totally missed the point where you said you know he likes you. If you aren't actually friends, which it doesn't sound like you are if you don't hang out (I'd call that acquaintances), then I wouldn't really say that you're stringing him along.
We just text occasionally. In the past I told him I want to hang out but we never did. I told him I love him and really care about him. I told him I was thinking about him after midnight while at a party and he ran with it
Well I can see how that might leave him confused.
How? It wasn’t like my actions showed that I liked him. I didn’t flirt or touch him or stuff like that.
You told him you love him and really care about him. You told him you were thinking about him at a party after midnight. You told him you want to hang out, and you still chat occasionally. If you have not made it clear that you -do not- want a romantic relationship with him, I can see how a person can get confused by those things and see a potential for a relationship.
I told him after everything has falling down on us. It might be too late
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Just checking on him and casual conversation
Why are you doing this?
Because he is my friend
But you already have friends. So does he.
Sure but he is apart of that friend group