How do you text girls to keep them interested enough to get a date without texting hey or sounding boring?

[CoolGuyJoe]

Texting "Hey what's up?" only works if you've already got some sort of relationship established. You need to find some sort of common ground so you can actually speak to her. You gotta be more than just a body with a dick 👀

If you're matching with a chick online you should either see her interests in her bio or ask about them yourself. Being interested in what she does while being able to link that to what you do is leagues better than "Hey I have a penis over here for you". Paraphrasing of course 😛

Talk about hobbies, work or stuff that's going on in the world. If she doesn't maintain conversation, you move on to a chick who does. You shouldn't feel like you have to fight for her attention, and she shouldn't feel like she has to pry information from you. You want to show her who you are with your texting. A simple "Pineapple on pizza yes or no?" is an example of a good opener because it lets you both contribute a bit of your selves in a low stakes back and forth.

Have fun with it just like you would in person. Using emojis to convey more emotion can be a plus if you don't overdo it. It's all in good fun my man. I think you'll get a handle on it in no time. ✌️

[Merzyagg]

I wish there were more guys like you personally. I don’t mind texting if I have the time, it’s relevant, constructive, to the point and do not waste my time nor go on and on about nonsense. There are a lot of guys though that are like the girls you describe and they keep texting all day when I am busy, and get upset if I don’t respond. People spend too much wasted time on phones and not enough in person. It’s why we have a lot of issues in general but that’s beside the point. I won’t text someone back who texts stuff all the time and pesters you with stupid shit when I have work to do or need to get stuff done. If you spend all day answering these and waste hours at a time, not only is it annoying and gets you stressed, it leaves a subconscious anger that this person cares so little about my time and responsibilities and I am certain they would not be so interested if I lost my job over it or my house fell apart from neglect.
I think it’s great and if you want to text only what you want to text and even just a short one, you should explain and they should understand and quit wasting your time! The short ones you send are the same as saying a great “Hello today, just checking in and thinking about you” and should be viewed as a nice reminder to them that they should get off their arse and phone and ask you out or meet up and do something as friends and then you can share those conversations. It’s annoying. But don’t change and be vocal about why and what it means. And you will get a lot more done and do things that create actual things you can talk about in the future. Instead of being sucked in to useless conversations about the same shit.

[DizzyDesii]

I hate texting and can only be interesting by text for a few days. If you really wanna be entertained then you gotta call me 🤣 and if you're gonna ask me out then you better show up at my door or sumn. Dont ask her out by text lol

[Dongtai]

Whenever I’m texting a girl she’s usually doing most of the talking and I listen. I’ll ask about her day and she’ll go in depth. I’ll say things that happened in my day. But usually I text a girl to hangout or go out on a date. I prefer in person conversations over texting.

[scooterman]

Talk about them, ask them how things are going in thier life, dint be desperate, but actually put in some effort

[I-have-a-biscuit]

I text weird, wholesome stuff and ideas, but didn't care if they wanted to ghost me or not when I was open

[Anonymous]

😂 if she’s doesn’t text dude she probably isn’t interested.