Went on a date with a guy from work so we already knew each other,he's very into me and always really flirty over texts.Says he wants to take care of me and be there for me but now I text him a few days ago about going out again and NO REPLY wtf! He's always the one texting me so when I take initiative I get no reply! Is he playing some stupid game?
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Define "into me". This guy sounds physically attracted to you but beyond that, who knows. Saying you want to take care of someone is not the same as actually doing it and you guys have barely gone on one date, so it is a bit soon to determine what he is looking for with you.
Since you sent the text a few days ago, has he not sent you any texts back? You say he's always the one texting you, so if he not only did not reply to your text AND he is not sending his own, I would say that you still have a ways to go to really see what this guy is all about.
I was told once that it can take around a year, maybe less, to really see what someone is all about. You need time to see the patterns someone has in how they treat you. It is about patterns, not one-off communications, that show you the truth. Also, a guy can say all he wants about his intentions but it is his actions you should look at. It is very easy when a guy is feeling very lusty for him to believe and say he wants to be there for you, but it is their actions that show what is really going on.
Beyond that, if the guy is texting you but just did not respond to that one text, let it go. Wait for him to ask you out.2