As much as i agree, some of us have horrible luck offline, running into those who are just not interested, they are already in a relationship, or the only ones that the guy has attracted to him are those he finds really unattractive. It sucks but some of us really have no other options
Okay, but how does this even work when there are COVID restrictions?
@UncleJessieRabbit Obviously COVID restrictions are a huge complication, but are most people even complying with these restrictions? Especially younger people for whom COVID is largely a non-issue?Anyway, COVID or not, it doesn't change the way women "shop" for men on dating apps, so if you're not an 8+, you should have very low expectations of success, even if it's your only option. That's just the reality of the situation, and you'll have to find ways to "work the system", such as "meeting" women outside of dating apps, where they're less likely to reject you on first sight, and work towards eventually meeting them in person.If there were local groups of people who used to get together around an interest (sports, movies, books, board games, crafts, cooking, photography, etc.), those groups still exist and have just moved most activity online for the time being - though private get-togethers are almost certainly still happening. Seek out those groups and get involved online, and sooner or later you'll be invited to real-world events with those folks, and then you're in.
I pretty much agree except for the fact that confidence and charisma do not matter on dating apps. If you disagree check out some youtube channels called Faceandlms, Jerry lui
It basically does not matter how you act. Its all about looks. Many tinder experiments on youtube have figured this out. Check out Faceandlms' channel on youtube if you disagree.
@Louistruman19 I don't think it was an issue before Tinder. But yeah, it sucks and the concept of dating was just turned into yet another market-ized experience where you have to be the highest bidder of the competition to win.The world is not getting better each day.
Thanks for MHO!
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This, I will talk to so many girls and they seem so excited and us emojis and exclamation marks.. and then they never give me a time when they’re free and nothing happens. I’ve done irl dates where they’ve forgotten too. It sucks
Yes. It is extremely difficult. The upside is that you will start a relationship that is bound to fail less often than you did before. You usually know each other better by the time you go on a first date.
Yeah, he said they barely respond
I can feel his pain :(
I actually love that story that’s how one of my closest friends found her husband on Tinder,