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That's great. Thanks for sharing your opinion.
Thank you for asking the question
I don't mind being the dominant bread winner as long as my partner does not take advantage of me for earning more than him which happened in the past and almost ruined my life.
@sheikalana yes I completely get that. You need a partner that is also a solid reasonable person that respects you and your contributions. The partnership in marriage should be all In and willing to work any issues out as they occur in life. The alternative is being alone, or multiple relationships through life that ultimately come to an end at a early stage. There is a term which is equally yoked which comes to mind. Both partners Pull equally and together with the skill sets that they bring into the marriage. Income is only one of the pieces of the puzzle.
Very true. Thanks for sharing your opinion.
Hahahahahaha not every women would say that.
What if she's taller and earns more than you LOL.
That's an overkill. :)
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That's sweet. Thanks for sharing.
I'm not a feminist and I do want to have kids and raise my kids too.
Trust me independent women are not here to control anybody lol.
I disagree. Some women in general are very controlling even if they are not financially independent. So, I can't expect that independent women will be any better. Some women beat their husbands real bad
That is absolutely true some women are controlling even if they are financially independent that's not about her status or about the money that she owns it's her personality and her insecurities. I'm talking about the point of view of someone who earns more than most guys and I'm telling you I don't have the intention of controlling anyone's life I have better things to do.
Then I think you would be a desirable partner. You are not ugly?
Thanks for answering.
Good to know you're okay with it. Thanks for answering.
Thanks for your opinion.
I don't think so. Thanks for sharing your opinion.
Np. Thanks for responding with your fiction.
It's not my fiction it's my reality.
Ok my bad. Your reality, known as fiction to everyone else.
Thanks for sharing your opnion.
A few years ago I dated someone who didn't earn as much as me and he almost ruined my life. Till this day he still owns me a bunch of money that I will never get back.
@sheikalana happened to my ex too. Her ex boyfriend just pretty much spend her savings. I don't think it's right to borrow from your SO because they are your SO. There's a hint of blackmail in it. As love and trust are often mentioned together, it gets difficult to say no.
True! And then it becomes a habit and it's so so hard to say no. This type of people have the ability of playing the victims and make you feel guilty or sorry for something that's not even your fault. Honestly after so many years I don't care about the money that he owns me anymore my mental health is so much more important and in the end I managed to get triple of the money back into my life.
@sheikalana it's not just money but yes, the emotional abuse they played you with. He left her with a kid too. Manipulating dickheads. They find the next (excuse me but), naive girl to promess the world and the suck them dry, emotionally and financially untill they can't no more then go back living with their mother. I'm using naive as in unaware of those kind of people. English is not my native language. It's not in a derogatory way.
Yea I get what you're saying.
I'm right here.
What does sound selfish? A woman earning more than you?
No that doesn't really make sense. The guy not liking the women for being more successful. Ha. Eh
Oh okay got it. Yea I know but some guys feel intimidated and don't really like the fact that a woman earns more than him and is financially more independent than him.
You DON'T like a woman being more successful than a sorry ass mama f*cking looser/guy? Are... You the FNG?
Agreed. Thanks for your answer.
Because she earns more and is at a higher post than me
anything that improves your life makes my life more miserable.