How would you react if it went further than that? Like if the guy reached under your bra or unbuttoned your pants
If it was the very first time we kissed, I would personally feel like that was too much too soon.
Is there a time limit for that next step? What’s your personal opinion?
Not a set amount of time. I think it depends on how much time you've spent together and what comfort level has been established. Not everyone will agree with me, but I personally think the first day/night you kiss, it shouldn't go much further than that. The next time you meet up, it might be more heavy making out, which could lead to more (the next steps you said). I guess it's hard for me to say exactly. I've dated guys before where it was just 3 dinners of 1.5 hours each, and I've dated a guy where 3 dates meant spending 3 full days together - brunch, walking around downtown, getting coffee, going to the beach, dinner, etc. I obviously had a much greater connection and comfort level with the guy I'd spent more time with, so I think a set number of dates isn't necessarily the best indicator.
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