Why?, I would love to know your thoughts, because I have this friend who has a girlfriend.. she sued him first.. but he's still talking to three other girls... Including me.. he used to date me.. he broke up with me in October.. but he pursued me.. he said he will never be serious with this girl.. because he's talking to three other gorls. Wiw.. I feel like when a girl pursues a guy , the guy doesn't really like her.. because it's the guy's job to go to the grill in my opinion... If he really likes her.. I already know he doesn't like her because he's talking to the other three girls.. he told me even if he has strong feelings her he's still not going to stop talking to the other three... I feel like that's wrong, pick one girl and stick with her if you really like the other girl you wouldn't be talking to the other three. Period.. and no I don't think guys and girls can be friends.. based on experience. 😑😒 .. even though he broke up with me he still wants us to be friends.. and he won't even at least tell the other girls that he has a girlfriend, because "it will broke their hearts", moisturize talking to them because he says they like him...🙄(rolls ).. he should at least tell him that he has a girlfriend.
I can tell you that if a man is unwilling to give you his full-attention and light of day, why should you? Why should you be the one to pursue someone? I think that attraction should be mutual for a relationship to be stable and healthy. This guy that you are referring to sounds like he is not doing you any good right now. This very second. You can choose to hold on to the hope that this guy will change his attitude... but there comes a point where you need to accept that you can not change someone else’s behavior. I recently went through a break up. It was a short “relationship” but powerful. He broke it off with me, yet still contacts me here and there. I am realizing from the months that I have reflected on the break up that I deserve better. I think that I have enough experience to say the same for you: you deserve better. If you feel like you are chasing the man, ask yourself: why? Also ask yourself: why won’t he chase you? You don’t have to chase someone that runs away from you. Remember that.
I never chased him though he , he wanted to be friends after we broke up, a week ago. Now he has another girlfriend but he's talking to 3 other girls.. an the FEELINGS were mutual. He's the one who wanted to be friends... even though I'm sad... 😒 I'm pretty much over it. I was just saying his NEW girlfriend pursued him instead of the other way around... Why is he talking to 3 other women if he likes his girlfriend so much.. 😂
Not really sure how to answer that. Could be because he is a player. Thanks for MHO
He called me me twice and it trying message me on Facebook.. when didn't even give him permission to contact me on it... 🙄 That's scary.. because he told me he didn't have a Facebook..
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