lol I wanted to hear from your personal experience and how do YOU determine it during a first date, not other men.
Lol so if a girl don’t make any sign to touch you... it’s not attractive to you? How do you like a girl to show you she wants to move forward?
First of all, it's not funny. I take touch very seriously.Touch is a very obvious sign of interest or at the very least openness. A person that doesn't want to be be touched or to touch anyone is reserved and defensive. All you have to do to identify them is lean closer to someone and see if they lean back. A woman going out of her way to do the opposite of that a sign she likes me or is willing to find out. Sure, anyone can go on a date and talk, but very few can engage in touch.It can be the smallest thing, like laughing and touching me on the hand, offering a hug to greet me, touching me on the shoulder with an open palm to get my attention. (Not tapping me with one finger) It will go a long way. Sitting there and offering me no forward motion will turn me off, because maybe I want the opportunity to touch as well, but if I don't feel like you're open to me, I won't do it, and I'll take it as you're not very into me. Body language, tone of voice, and ability to converse are things I pay very close attention to.To answer your second question, I personally like to offer a second date that's more personal at my home if I like her that much. (The alternative is saying that were done here.) If the answer is yes, were on the same page. If the answer is not yes (such as "we'll see" or "I have to check my schedule" or "I'm busy so I don't know") I tell her don't bother, we're done here.
On the other hand if she suggests something less personal for a second date, I see she's still figuring me out and I'm okay with that. She wants control, which I'm less okay with, but I'm willing to let her take the lead if it means she's going to attempt get to know me better. If I can sense that, that's a good sign. If I sense selfishness, I'm not even gonna bother. I've been dragged around to different things often enough to know a meaningless date.Either way, I want no hesitation to a decision. People will waste your time trying to "let you down easy" but it's just cruel. All I want to do is get to the point. If it's to end, then just do it quickly. If it's to continue, then don't do it slowly. I'll get bored.But let's say everything goes great. We go out to eat sushi, we have an awesome conversation, she laughs at my jokes, she tells me all about herself, her dreams, her passion, she likes the same things as me, she touches me, we have a meeting of the minds, were on the same page, she comes over to my house, we drink, we watch a movie, we make out,It's Perfect.
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Lol thanks for your input! Actually I don’t care for body count and it’s too personal for a first date 😅😂
what do you mean by how long the date is and what was being done for the first date?
One really long date can show more than 3 short dates about someone.
Too further expand the reply do you want too see this person again and again? That should be a yes if you like them.
Good pointer :)
Awwww that’s so sweet ☺️ I love these type of stories! Hehe.
lol then how do you determine you wanna go on a second date?
If I feel like we had a good time, we connected well and were able to talk to eachother comfortably.Then I would go on a second date.Trying to put a label on something this early puts a burden on the relationship before it even starts.
Good points. How do you determine there's connection and a good time?
When you are not hesitant about speaking to the other person than there is a connection.And when you feel like smiling the whole time then you are having a good time.
that's cute, thank you! :)
Cute?But I am glad I was able to help.
Yeah, it’s cute (: Thanks for always being helpful!
How do you determine potential?
How do you determine to go on a second date then? Lol
You go on a second date to get more information...
That’s interestinggg.. What makes a girl stand out from other girls type of vibe?
Well it’s hard to say every man is different but for me on the first date I pay attention to what your not saying a little more than what you are saying that shows me more of who you are than anything a good example say we are walking in a park and I’m talking to you I notice you have your hands in your jacket pocket that already tells me that your not so confident in yourself that you can be with me and don’t get me started if I see you on your phone I would end the date so early that shows me that my time is not valuable to you and a guys time is super important to us especially if he’s on his purpose in life
Wooooow that’s so amazing how you’re so observant 😱! That’s definitely something to consider 🤔 Do you appreciate the things the girl does do and say at least though? Lol.
How do determine if you wanna see her again for a second date? What is the vibe you looked for?
Hmm sounds like me 🙊🤔 thank you for your input! 😊
You're a keeper then
what is it about her appearance, smell, or the way she speaks that gravitates to it?
Clean, classy, good intonation
Only if she’s interested in you? How would you like a girl to show you she’s interested during a date? What if you’re not interested in her? 😅😂
Generally. She is focused on me and not on anything but me. If I wasn't interested in her I probably wouldn't be on a date with her.
Lol I’m asking you 🙃
Well I dont date I met someone who's wants me, I've never met a lady that didn't want to skip the date and get to it.
Interestinggg~ I heard this before... sounds so simple yet it makes me wonder what is this "feeling"? Lol
you'll just get knots in your stomach, you'll feel giddy around them, etc..