Why don't small and older children call a stepmother a mother?
If they're grown, it's probably out of respect for the mother that raised them, especially if she's dead now. If they're small, they're just being angry at their situation and taking it out on the next motherly figure
Yes there is i am a very maternal type. And I can really give a good discipline to a child.
Good disciplinary action or a healthy disciplined approach to life?
Good disciplinary action 👍
You are misguided. 🙁
Disciplinary action is traditionally used to refer to punishment. Someone who is growing up rarely needs to be punished. If you are so easily able to imagine disciplinary action enough to label yourself as good, then I can only get the impression that there is not enough focus in your mind on being a role model and confidant to someone who is developing.
Sometimes the child should be beaten when he does wrong. Mother slap is the greatest gift for the child. It is like this in our culture and our children are really smart and docile. 🙄
Why is a docile child valued?
Because he respects its mother. What do you think?
I believe that equating docility as respect is rooted in a confrontational parenting style. It says "You will not question me or else." There is no need for this. The child or teenager should look forward to interacting with the adult without any docility or meekness. The child should be able to speak openly of their thoughts and concerns. They should never feel unable to speak to their parents. This only causes a divide between the parent and child. It gets in the way of the parent being able to teach the child.
My child should never break my word, nor can.
What does it say about you if they do?
"My mother wants my good. My mother is protecting me from everything negative." will say.
What does it mean to you if they don't listen to what you say?
Because they are my children and no one but me thinks of them.
I don't think you're hearing my question 🤔 When your child disobeys you, what do you feel? Do you feel angry? What comes to your mind?
Yes i am angry him and i would give him heavy punishment. I want slap him Because I'm his mother, I'm his elder.
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What are you getting at? For example?
Because you said you do, but only time will tell.
For example can I be your mother? Would you call me mother?
If i were your mother*
If you were older I probably would.
Stepmother is stepmother. She be young or old shouldn't be a problem. Also I am 24 years old and older than you.
That's too young and I would feel weird calling you mother.
Why did you say so?
Resistance which you will face from children, not being a first one of someone makes a difference, you are a young girl moreover, so find a unmarried guy.
there are lot more things while being a mother, your own child will always hold a different place for you , the milk connection formed when your baby suck out milk from your breasts and those hormones like serotonin and blah blah blah released and that experience of motherhood will likely make you partial towards those children and many more things.
So you mean; is there a difference between biologic child and stepchild?