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Should I be intimidated by a guy that is older?

Anonymous
I think I have a bit of a crush on an older man 20 years older than me. He has kids my age because he had kids very young.

He's not really good looking or glamorous, but I'm intrigued by him and his personality.

I know that I would be a great partner, but as good as I think I am, there is a speckle of worry that he will look down on me because of my age or will assume I'm immature or an idiot because I'm younger.

To me, I feel like older people, especially those with kids, constantly make fun of those who are younger, never had kids, or have never been married and constantly judge them as being less wise, or just not on the same level of them and it's judgmental.

I am not looking to "bone" or "bang"-- I want a significant partnership.

Am I just overthinking this? I guess I just want him to admire me the way I admire him.
Should I be intimidated by a guy that is older?
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