I met the most wonderful guy online, a month ago. Since we "met" he texts morning, night and throughout the day. Calls me several times a week and we've both admitted that it feels like we have some sort of connection. Can talk so easily about anything and everything, such a sweet guy.
However we met for the first time a week ago, and it felt like it had been shattered. I'd seen pictures of him, but fair to say them must have been at least several years old. I know that personality should outshine apperance and I'm no perfect oil painting myself. I'm just so confused on what to do, on paper he's the ideal guy however I just didn't feel anything when seeing him.
I didn't want to hurt him but cooled off on the texting for a couple of days, but then his sweet words made me fall right in again.
We're going out again this evening, to the cinema and for food. I was just wondering if anyone else has been in a similar situation? Or just advice in general on what to do?
I don't know what to let him down, as he's texted me several times since saying thank you for a wonderful evening and when would I like to do it again
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I think he should of been honest about his appearance. Instead he gave you photos that were old. This is shady and shows his insecurities. It's really up to you if you choose to pursue this or not. You have every right to move on, and shouldn't feel obligated. But you could also depriving yourself of a great relationship, in favor of something materialistic. So the choice is yours. My advice would be to see him a few more times. If you feel the chemistry outweighs the looks department, then maybe you guys have a shot.1