How do I show a guy I like him without being too obvious?

[Anonymous]

I'm not gay or bi but there was this one gorgeous lesbian who aggressively hit on me, I could just feel the tingles and it didn't take long for me to be absolutely gushing wet just from her flirting. Long story short I cheated on my boyfriend with her, the sex was amazing and the orgasms so intense. I went home to my boyfriend and let him fuck me real quick as I was still so wet and turned on, he actually made me cum through penetration which never happened before or since. Never saw her again and I spent a few months looking for her.

[caring__1]

Smile at him; ask him to help you with something; tell him you're impressed with a specific accomplishment of his; talk with him about his interests and show interest in those same things; touch him in non-sexual ways in passing or while talking (though never cling to him); show interest in and be loving toward his pet or child; identify to yourself the specific things that draw you to him and talk about those things (though not if they are superficial things like looks and body parts); hold the door for him; take care of yourself and your looks while not appearing to obviously draw attention to yourself; offer to share something you made yourself; talk about his assets and accomplishments to people who can help him get ahead; say "I'm getting myself some coffee. Would you like some also?"; send him an anonymous card saying "Someone is impressed by you" so he opens his eyes and sees these things you are doing

Hope the results are what you'd like to see.

[Massageman]

I gotta agree with Browneye57.
If you try to show him "without being too obvious", you might as well stay home and watch reruns of "Friends" or something.

Guys do not respond too well to subtle hints. Let him know it in no uncertain terms. Once he knows, THEN you can use the subtle stuff- flirting, winks, teasing, etc- to keep things interesting.

Psst- you never heard it from me, but guys can be kind of shy about this stuff, even if they don't appear to be so.

[CurlyGirl42]

Try to get to know him even better.. contact him and hang out with him more, and then bring in some subtle flirting. If he response positively; contact you and flirts back, you turn it even more up till you feel more sure if he likes you back the same way.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why would you you not want to express your feelings clearly and directly? Why take a chance on being misunderstood? You've gotta take a chance if you wanna find romance!

[aftermydemise]

Most guys are pretty dumb about this kinda stuff. Just be direct, and matter-of-fact with him. If you try to "hint" that you like him , he might not pick up on it. This way there's no confusion or misinterpretation on his part. Make it easier for him lol. Just ask him out.

[Browneye57]

Consider being as obvious as you possibly can. Otherwise he'll just think you're not interested. I don't know why this is so confusing, I guess it's just a communication style for women. If you love the guy, adore him, TELL HIM and SHOW HIM.

Do you even know how to get and keep a man? Have you ever even considered it?

[EclecticEmapath1111]

Here's a bit of useful advice.. say very little about how you feel until he's teasing up to how he feels about you, after he's told you that he has feelings for you grab him and kiss him.

[Chris_u006]

Be little more nice than just daily kind towards him. Ask what his favorite place for food is, take him there and try to get to know him, ask him if he wants to watch a movie with you and watch it with him, while watching you could just lay your head on his shoulder. If he haven't noticed after that, you can tell him.

[vintagegirl90]

Just touch him more often, like when you meet up, hug him and when he makes you laugh smile. Also try to compliment a fair bit about stuff he does well. These are all pretty subtle ways to show you like him

[Saturnxox]

Guys are stupid. You can't make them read your mind by giving them little hints.
You need to be obvious and just tell him or he probably won't get it.
Put on your big girl pants.

[spartan55]

You tell him you like him. Why wouldn't you want it to be obvious? You aren't being desperate, but you are playing games if you don't let him know how you truly feel.

[Kicks98]

Be honest and told him
I did it and well the result was not good. One year ago he said no... But look at me now. I look better and Now is he is again trying to catch my attention but sorry I'm not interest on him now.

[SunnySri]

Mam, I think you should be honest about how you feel and tell him directly. Sometimes being honest is the best approach and you get your answer too.
Hope this helps mam.

[Tunasub]

After you give him a blowie... don't swallow.


Nothing says obvious like swallowing the jizz.

Look it up.

[Gedaria]

Why not, that is what he is wanting , to know , that you like him...

[Avicenna]

No, you need to be obvious about it because guys are often oblivious about such things. No need to not be obvious anyway, there's nothing to be ashamed of.

[winterfox10]

You start by abandoning this idea because no guy is ever going to pick up on your attempts to be cute and coy. Own your emotions and desires like an adult and openly flirt with the fucking guy

[Cherokeehp]

What’s wrong with being obvious? Being direct is the best option.

[FriendlyEnigma]

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD BE OBVIOUS 😭 we'll never understand otherwise and even if we do "hints" don't mean shit, for me personally, if someone likes me they should say it

[Unit1]

It doesn't work like that.
you either show him that you like him or you don't. No in betweens here. We don't pick up on clues or hints or anything of that sort. Forget the cryptic language.

[knight2468]

Treat him nicely with passion. Ask him about his life. He will get it without asking him directly

[letssee89]

Be obvious. Guys are generally terrible at taking subtle hints.

[Girl-addict]

Use as many as caring words as you can care for him so muchhh
Give him some time.
If he doesn't realise there is no other way
Propose him !!!

[Prof_Don]

Playfully touch him on the arm, shoulder or back. Send him silly fun text messages.

[dragoblack]

Why do you think you have to hint and dance your way around it? Being honest is the best way to let him know

[Wise4myage]

Just be flirtatious but not too over the top, and let him pursue you.

[007kingifrit]

just be obvious we aren't very good at picking up your signs

[Twalli]

You should try to be fairly obvious, guys probably won't notice otherwise

[Anonymous]

Don’t look at him too much. I catch so many girls checking me out but they play it off

[MysticDevice]

Guys are terrible at picking up on that. So you kinda have to be a little obvious.

[Snowman666]

you don't. Be obvious or he will never get the hint.

[lookingforsomereal]

it's in the eyes. the way you look at him. Hold eye contact, and flirt with your eyes.

[AdamPereira2]

dont worry do whatever you want as lonng as its not crazy cause 99 percent of the time id even know if someone likes me

[InferiorElegy]

Being obvious is ok but girls get that wrong all the time.

[TheAfrikan]

Smile to him and try to notice a few new changes on him each time you meet him n compliment on them.

[R3DthatDude]

Say hey dummy I like you lol

[Anonymous]

Invite him to your home to watch a movie or something.

[FakeName123]

Well, with many guys you need to be obvious.

[chris_987]

Why don’t you wanna be obvious

[nomoreusernames]

Be obvious. Just fucking tell the guy.

[Iron_Man]

Hold his hand

[BeyondCuriosity]

I say just be obvious.

[bklynbadboy1]

Just tell him how you feel

[Dave31989]

why?

why do you want to play games?

[Ash525]

Don't tell him. Let him tell u first.

[just_legit1998]

Compliments (seldomly), and motivations.

[Bobby_Turboto]

It has to be obvious... we are dumb

[CliffJack]

Just. Fucking. Tell him... Be. Obvious.

[sheikalana]

Just say it.

[JosyJosy]

You don't