
How do I show a guy I like him without being too obvious?


- Anonymous1 yI'm not gay or bi but there was this one gorgeous lesbian who aggressively hit on me, I could just feel the tingles and it didn't take long for me to be absolutely gushing wet just from her flirting. Long story short I cheated on my boyfriend with her, the sex was amazing and the orgasms so intense. I went home to my boyfriend and let him fuck me real quick as I was still so wet and turned on, he actually made me cum through penetration which never happened before or since. Never saw her again and I spent a few months looking for her.Is this still revelant?
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- Smile at him; ask him to help you with something; tell him you're impressed with a specific accomplishment of his; talk with him about his interests and show interest in those same things; touch him in non-sexual ways in passing or while talking (though never cling to him); show interest in and be loving toward his pet or child; identify to yourself the specific things that draw you to him and talk about those things (though not if they are superficial things like looks and body parts); hold the door for him; take care of yourself and your looks while not appearing to obviously draw attention to yourself; offer to share something you made yourself; talk about his assets and accomplishments to people who can help him get ahead; say "I'm getting myself some coffee. Would you like some also?"; send him an anonymous card saying "Someone is impressed by you" so he opens his eyes and sees these things you are doing
Hope the results are what you'd like to see.Is this still revelant? - I gotta agree with Browneye57.
If you try to show him "without being too obvious", you might as well stay home and watch reruns of "Friends" or something.
Guys do not respond too well to subtle hints. Let him know it in no uncertain terms. Once he knows, THEN you can use the subtle stuff- flirting, winks, teasing, etc- to keep things interesting.
Psst- you never heard it from me, but guys can be kind of shy about this stuff, even if they don't appear to be so.Is this still revelant?PS- Maybe "shy" isn't quite the right word - "gunshy" or "insecure" might be more accurate.
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- Try to get to know him even better.. contact him and hang out with him more, and then bring in some subtle flirting. If he response positively; contact you and flirts back, you turn it even more up till you feel more sure if he likes you back the same way.Is this still revelant?
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839- Why would you you not want to express your feelings clearly and directly? Why take a chance on being misunderstood? You've gotta take a chance if you wanna find romance!React
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- Most guys are pretty dumb about this kinda stuff. Just be direct, and matter-of-fact with him. If you try to "hint" that you like him , he might not pick up on it. This way there's no confusion or misinterpretation on his part. Make it easier for him lol. Just ask him out.React
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- Be honest and told him
I did it and well the result was not good. One year ago he said no... But look at me now. I look better and Now is he is again trying to catch my attention but sorry I'm not interest on him now.ReactLike
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- Consider being as obvious as you possibly can. Otherwise he'll just think you're not interested. I don't know why this is so confusing, I guess it's just a communication style for women. If you love the guy, adore him, TELL HIM and SHOW HIM.
Do you even know how to get and keep a man? Have you ever even considered it?ReactLike
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- Here's a bit of useful advice.. say very little about how you feel until he's teasing up to how he feels about you, after he's told you that he has feelings for you grab him and kiss him.React
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- Just touch him more often, like when you meet up, hug him and when he makes you laugh smile. Also try to compliment a fair bit about stuff he does well. These are all pretty subtle ways to show you like himReact
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- Be little more nice than just daily kind towards him. Ask what his favorite place for food is, take him there and try to get to know him, ask him if he wants to watch a movie with you and watch it with him, while watching you could just lay your head on his shoulder. If he haven't noticed after that, you can tell him.React
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- Guys are stupid. You can't make them read your mind by giving them little hints.
You need to be obvious and just tell him or he probably won't get it.
Put on your big girl pants.ReactLike
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Haha yeah I'm sorry, it sounds like an insult 😂 I do love guys.
But it is funny that they won't notice that you like them after 2 months of dropping hints daily. And when you finally just tell them they are so confused haha.I have definitely had those moments 😅 but truthfully after years of it i notice a lot more now, but i know im not alone when i say i rarely act on hints.. hints really are just hints, i wouldn never wanna ruin a friendship over a miscommunication honestly. I know a lot of people think that's a weak excuse but yeah i would hate to lose a friend like that tbh, i tend to ignore hints altogether
- Mam, I think you should be honest about how you feel and tell him directly. Sometimes being honest is the best approach and you get your answer too.
Hope this helps mam.ReactLike
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- You tell him you like him. Why wouldn't you want it to be obvious? You aren't being desperate, but you are playing games if you don't let him know how you truly feel.React
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- After you give him a blowie... don't swallow.
Nothing says obvious like swallowing the jizz.
Look it up.ReactLike
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- What’s wrong with being obvious? Being direct is the best option.React
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- Why not, that is what he is wanting , to know , that you like him...React
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- No, you need to be obvious about it because guys are often oblivious about such things. No need to not be obvious anyway, there's nothing to be ashamed of.React
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- You start by abandoning this idea because no guy is ever going to pick up on your attempts to be cute and coy. Own your emotions and desires like an adult and openly flirt with the fucking guyReact
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- FOR THE LOVE OF GOD BE OBVIOUS 😭 we'll never understand otherwise and even if we do "hints" don't mean shit, for me personally, if someone likes me they should say itReact
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- It doesn't work like that.
you either show him that you like him or you don't. No in betweens here. We don't pick up on clues or hints or anything of that sort. Forget the cryptic language.ReactLike
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- Treat him nicely with passion. Ask him about his life. He will get it without asking him directlyReact
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- Be obvious. Guys are generally terrible at taking subtle hints.React
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- Why do you think you have to hint and dance your way around it? Being honest is the best way to let him knowReact
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