How do you decide if you want to date a man or a woman?

[Everyoneisplastic]

You're just confused. It's okay. Date girls. In our political climate, people are tricked into thinking that everbody is gay. Obviously, if you "can't decide" than you're likely attracted to girls, but you think you like guys because of peer pressure. Let me tell you something: I'm as straight as a fucking arrow, but I look at some guys and think "That guy is hot" but I know I'm not thinking it as in "Oh fuck me big boy". When a guy is good looking, to me it's a very objective thing. Think about it like this: girls always complement each other on their looks, but they wouldn't want to fuck said person. If you're thinking "Oh I wanna have sex with that girl" and not "I want that guy to stick his dick in my ass and give me a reach-around" you're probably straight. If vise-versa than you're probably gay. Hope this helps.
P. S. As a Christian, I think we all struggle with sin being gay and being a liar and being a theif and having lust are all sins. Just don't let the eathly desires keep you from the souls desires (A. K. A don't have sex). I know it's difficult, trust me, my sin is incredible lust, but prayer helps me a ton with it. Since praying, I have begun writing out my fantasies so that I find a release of sorts. I believe God lead me to doing so. GOD LOVES YOU! NO MATTER IF YOU'RE GAY OR STRAIGHT! JESUS LOVES YOU! I LOVE YOU (in a completely non-sexual way)!

[lightbulb27]

stand straight against the wall, bend neck down and look between legs. if there is a thing there... then you want to date a woman.

other wise, date a man.

hope that helps.

if you are attarcted to men, then read psycology or talk to counselor and try to sort that out. if you can't sort it out, then I guess it don't matter... unless you want to have kids. I don't think any guy you date gonna make kids.

[jennifer_bloom]

I think about how the person treats me and others
how gracious they are and willing to share resources
how loyal and honest and faithful they are
how courageous and confident they are
whether I can trust them not to leave me for somebody else
whether they are willing to negotiate if I don’t want the same thing as them on issues like religion or number of children or diet
how hard they are willing to work
how modest they are
how gracious they are
how intelligent they are
how they look

[AmandaYVR]

It's not a decision, it's a desire for one or the other (or both.)

[Bee-Hatch]

Try both, see who you feel most comfortable with, and go from there. It sounds like gender isn't an issue here.

[IDKANYMOREIMCONFUSED]

u don't u date both genders and then decide if u like one gender more or if u like them equally ur just in a time of ur life where you need to experiment I am young but I am also pretty wise so pls take this advice.

[In_Trance]

Do you think dicks are delicious? That could be the deciding factor

[MissDawn7961]

I am a woman and date men only the way God intended ! thanks

[Anonymous]

Most people dont have to decide. Neither do you. you could date them both

[kingofthellamas]

Do you fancy ice-cream or a lolly pop?

[Iron_Man]

You’re in your 20s and you still don’t know

[JosyJosy]

try both then if it's so hard

[Anonymous]

Well, do you want to fuck or be fucked?

[Massageman]

No problem for me.
Me male. Need female.

[TOQGYDL]

Try both and see.