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What makes you say it isn’t about gender?
Because you say you're having trouble deciding. Therefore you're open to the possibility of dating either gender. So logically gender isn't an issue here.
You have no idea how hard it is being attracted to both.
Ugh seek out professional Christian counseling
I’ve talked with my Pastor and he said the sin comes in when we get physical with the same sex, not thinking about it. I know I’m not supposed to do it, but it won’t get out of my head. Why would God allow us to have desires that we can never act on? I don’t believe He makes anyone gay/bi. Just like we are born into sin even though God does not cause sin, so too some of us develop different attractions. That’s just my belief.
Seek out a sex therapist a Christian sex therapist counselor and work on all these things and pray about it
I might do that.
Iron_Man - good idea about the Christian counseling - ! thanks
Asker - male and female created he him ! male and female created he them ! God did not make all these other freaks who want to do it with everyone and everything on the planet ! so do not blame God for it or the Lords vengeance will be upon you ! thanks
Massageman - good one - ha , ha
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