Girls, why did she add me then her boyfriend made her delete me?

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We met 3 years ago at college, it was clear we was both attracted to each other (always looking at each other and flirting etc) . Whenever I spoke to other girls , i could see it annoyed her which made me feel bad because i didn’t speak to her. I was nervous to talk to her. But then Forced my self to speak with her even though I was shy. We got along fine but she was very shy. So every week I would sit with her at lunch, and eat and talk. It was clear to me she was attracted, also she would speak about me to her friends a lot when I’m around. She didn’t tell me she had a boyfriend. She started acting kinda hot and cold. So I stopped wanting to associate with her and I found out she secretly had a boyfriend. I stopped eating lunch with her which seemed to upset her I avoided her for months.

When I returned we told to attend a group meeting and was placed together. We both smiled. But then she seemed weird like constantly staring at the walls and looking upset but then staring at me if I’m joking with my friends laughing.
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I got told her boyfriend was controlling and he made her study at a closer uni and not have social media and things. The last day of college I sat with her and said I’f it didn’t work out with boyfriend I wanted to date her, but she wouldn’t add my social media because her boyfriend would find out. her boyfriend questions every guy and makes her delete them all. Months away we moved on to uni. I decided to try adding her anyway on Facebook and Instagram. She had me pending for ages. she accepted then blocked and unblocked me because she was scared he would question it. I re added her she left me pending for a while and then added me out of nowhere When she split up with him. Then a month later got back with him. I liked one of her photos. then he started stalking my Instagram, then a few days later she deleted me. Why did he make her delete me?

Answer 1

rachel776 | 306 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

of course a boyfriend is going to make her delete another guy who likes her

Asker

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he doesn’t know I like her. He made her delete other guys too. He doesn’t let her have any guys on any social media or even upload any new photos. It was only because she wanted to split with him and was tired of his bull**** that she added me. But then when they got back together. She didn’t delete me, but then they split again and she uploaded a picture which I liked. Then he started stalking my social media, when they got back together and she unblocked him, he had her delete all guys.
rachel776

23 d
a lot of boyfriends do that too, they don't let their gfs have anything to do with other guys
Asker

23 d
True , but just seems a little extreme to not allow her the ability to upload photos of herself on to social media , or to have any guys on social media
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rachel776

23 d
some guys are like that

the good news is most girls get tired of them and dump them eventually

Answer 2

Asker

he doesn’t know I like her. He made her delete other guys too. He doesn’t let her have any guys on any social media or even upload any new photos. It was only because she wanted to split with him and was tired of his bull**** that she added me. But then when they got back together. She didn’t delete me, but then they split again and she uploaded a picture which I liked. Then he started stalking my social media, when they got back together and she unblocked him, he had her delete all guys.

Answer 3

rachel776

a lot of boyfriends do that too, they don't let their gfs have anything to do with other guys

Answer 4

Asker

True , but just seems a little extreme to not allow her the ability to upload photos of herself on to social media , or to have any guys on social media

Answer 5

rachel776

some guys are like that

the good news is most girls get tired of them and dump them eventually

Girls, why did she add me then her boyfriend made her delete me?

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