Well you are 34. Men reach their primes in their 30s and 40s. When it comes to dating
As opposed to their 20s when dating is much harder
I know that’s true but some young guys get to be players and fuck a ton of girls. It should have been me too. But I grew up socially isolated and abused by entire life so I wasn’t able to receive the attention I was getting from girls. I was afraid of pretty girls and only settled for ugly fat ones because I thought that was all I could get lol. But I did have cute girls all over me my whole life I was just blind to it due to my extremely low self esteem. Now that I’ve realized the truth and gained a bunch of confidence I feel like I could have any girl I want lol. Should have always been that way lol. I guess having a shitty life taught me humility. I would have been a fuckboy if it wasn’t for my shitty childhood.
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Which better to have, any match or the value of selecting a match? That's the best way to put it
So "would you rather pick from dozens of options, or pick someone who chose you first?" I think I'd pick from dozens of options, because I feel like I'm in control that way, where as picking from the two or three homely women who chose me makes me feel bad about myself, like "this is the best I could hope for." Even though both of these are the default female choices already, so girls wouldn't even have to answer this question.