Should I give up or continue chasing her?

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It took her 6 months to tell me she has a boyfriend. We've been close on a number of occasions. I feel played and at the same time confused

Answer 1

Daniela1982 | 1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Do you really want to chase someone that has not been honest with you? What else is she not being honest about? If her lack of honesty and integrity is not enough to make you turn away then have at her and good luck.

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vesrergaard

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I don't know what to do
Daniela1982

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You already know what to do. You just don't want to accept it.
vesrergaard

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here's a text she sent

" I know that you are a good guy, a dream of every woman l know you are hurt, so many time you have proven your love for me it hurts me also to hurt someone who has always been there for me,, l currently also need sometime to think straight what l really need what in life, am not also in an easy situation "
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Daniela1982

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By the way, you only get to make one thread on this. Duplicates get removed.
vesrergaard

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Noted

Answer 2

vesrergaard

I don't know what to do

Answer 3

Daniela1982

You already know what to do. You just don't want to accept it.

Answer 4

vesrergaard

here's a text she sent

" I know that you are a good guy, a dream of every woman l know you are hurt, so many time you have proven your love for me it hurts me also to hurt someone who has always been there for me,, l currently also need sometime to think straight what l really need what in life, am not also in an easy situation "

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Daniela1982

By the way, you only get to make one thread on this. Duplicates get removed.

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vesrergaard

Noted

Answer 7

Anonymous

It took her six months? Damn... you probably got played, but also the outcome is unclear... what happens when you show too little/too much interest?

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vesrergaard

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here's a text she sent

" I know that you are a good guy, a dream of every woman l know you are hurt, so many time you have proven your love for me it hurts me also to hurt someone who has always been there for me,, l currently also need sometime to think straight what l really need what in life, am not also in an easy situation "
Opinion Owner

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So, she's saying she needs time to think about who she wants to be with?
vesrergaard

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I'm asking myself the same question

Answer 8

vesrergaard

here's a text she sent

" I know that you are a good guy, a dream of every woman l know you are hurt, so many time you have proven your love for me it hurts me also to hurt someone who has always been there for me,, l currently also need sometime to think straight what l really need what in life, am not also in an easy situation "