Is it shallow if you are attracted to someone for their specific property (details inside)?

[alice55]

Maybe but truly you never stay long with a person if you're only attracted to their accent or their hair color.
If you're attracted by a person cause of their accent but you find out they have a nice personality that match yours then in what's it bad?
Then if you find out the person doesn't have a good personality and you break up again in what is it bad or surprising? Many people break up over nothing even if they aren't the type of being shallow people (most people break up over cheating or money, like one like to invest and the other just like to buy useless stuff).
And if the same person doesn't have the accent you like but another and you end up not being attracted to them because of that then yes you can miss a good relationship but honestly nobody can be with someone who they're not attracted to also it's not fair to be in a relationship with a person you do not find attractive.

I would say yes it's shallow but there's nothing bad in being shallow.

[Jjpayne]

I think yes and no... Overall, most could be overlooked. For me, I'd say a broken accent might be off putting but overall, it is totally about our chemistry and how we connect over other things

[hahahmm]

You would still be attracted to her given the right circumstances like being stranded on an island together for a year.


Which means shallowness is either an illusion or everywhere?

[Avicenna]

No, you can’t really help what you’re attracted to

[anon1903]

Indeed it is

[TheLeeyo]

Amazon pun tho