How to ask a guy friend online if he wants to start a relationship?

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Answer 1

PrudentGuy | 301 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

I think the first step is NOT to start a relationship but to go out for a meal or drink.

"I would like to go (place + purpose). Please come."

If he reply positively, don't say date or relationship.

Just exchange numbers and get the arrangements done.

Talk about starting relationship face to face, after you both talked and are comfortable with each other.

Answer 2

Aakash_Hangargi | 391 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Yo dumbass are we going to be more than friends or shall I take my business some where else 🙃🙂.

Answer 3

JosyJosy | 2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

I'd slip it in the conversation hypothetically, to find out if he's even open to the idea of a long distance relationship.

Asker

14 d
I did! But I’m not sure if he wants that because he has a crush on this girl in his choir.
JosyJosy

13 d
And there's no way of meeting him irl? :/
Asker

13 d
I’m sure we could.. he’s one state away
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JosyJosy

13 d
Hm well to answer your question... the best way to ask a guy to start a relationship is to ask him straightup. I personally would just flirt with him a little and spend time with him. The more time, the closer you get to the person
Asker

13 d
your saying we should FaceTime soon? we’ve only been knowing each other for a month now
JosyJosy

13 d
Doesn't matter. Soon or not soon, doesn't matter how the time is spent to get to know him better. But facetime can be more intimate

Answer 4

Asker

I did! But I’m not sure if he wants that because he has a crush on this girl in his choir.

Answer 5

JosyJosy

And there's no way of meeting him irl? :/

Answer 6

Asker

I’m sure we could.. he’s one state away

Answer 7

JosyJosy

Hm well to answer your question... the best way to ask a guy to start a relationship is to ask him straightup. I personally would just flirt with him a little and spend time with him. The more time, the closer you get to the person

Answer 8

Asker

your saying we should FaceTime soon? we’ve only been knowing each other for a month now

Answer 9

JosyJosy

Doesn't matter. Soon or not soon, doesn't matter how the time is spent to get to know him better. But facetime can be more intimate

Answer 10

Paris13 | 3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

So.. Are you here for Friendlies or Looking for More?
Welcome to Gag Town and Best of Luck. xx

Paris13

10 d
Thanks to Gag. xx

Answer 11

Paris13

Thanks to Gag. xx

Answer 12

Alexandrubaschet08 | 164 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

"Do you want to start a relationship?"
I think is the right way.

Answer 13

Jerre | 704 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Think it’s going to determine how far the separation is. Just come out and ask him.

Answer 14

cherryblossomXD | 146 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

You want to be more than friends? 😊

Answer 15

In_Trance | 3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Pretty much the same way you just asked here

Answer 16

andy530 | 609 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Be direct and just go for it

Answer 17

anon1903 | 390 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Online dating doesn't work as far as I know

DavidFox

14 d
Agree

Answer 18

DavidFox

Agree

Answer 19

Anonymous

LDR, never worked for me.

Answer 20

Anonymous

uh just ask him duh

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