When do guys know they want a relationship?

[Kaazsz]

I don’t know anymore lol. I like some girls. Id say I even have a few crushes, one more than the others but crushes nonetheless.


And yet none of these girls I like is good for me. And when I really think about it, I don’t want to date them. I want a high quality woman who isn’t half braindead and unfortunately my crushes are not very smart people. But sometimes you can’t help but develop feelings. They also don’t have much drive for their own futures and don’t have much in terms of goals or anything. They’re bums really. If they were men they would probably be incels lol.


Too many girls like that. I almost feel as though I should adopt the standards that women seem to have. That cuts out a lot of the girls I might be interested in though.


On one hand I think maybe I’m being silly and I shouldn’t care. If I like her I like her and that’s that. I should go for it. On the other hand I married a woman who was a useless bum, and I don’t want to make the same mistake again. But I guess I can’t help but develop feelings for some girls.


So I kind of choose to wait and find someone better. Someone I have feelings for emotionally, AND logically I can look at their prospects as a person who has a future and see that hers is bright.


I haven’t been dating because most girls I know are basically bums. Maybe I SHOULD date around even if they are bums. Maybe I shouldn’t. Maybe I’m being stupid maybe not I really don’t know.

[guywithissues900]

She needs to have these things:
- Attractive. The thing that draws me in first is if she has a nice figure and knows how to take care of herself.
- Mentality. A good woman is feminine and doesn’t have this weird mindset that she’s a guy in a girls body or that she’s equal to her boyfriend. Equality is a delusion.
- Attitude. I love women who know how to take care of other people, empathizing with them or giving them good advice. I also love women who are selective in romance and know that disrespecting her body and image is disrespecting her integrity and also her future husband’s dignity. I don’t want a girl with a body count higher than 1.
- Beliefs. I will choose a Christian/Catholic woman as my wife when I am ready to settle down. I’m a Christian myself and I would never even dream of marrying or being in a real relationship with a woman of another religion or lack of religion. I can be friends with benefits with girls of any type, but I wouldn’t marry a non Christian girl.
- Submissiveness. If she sees me as a potential husband she also should know that she will submit herself to me, and I will treat her with respect in return. I know people hate to hear this part by the way, but this is what the Bible says and I stick to it.


That is when I can know that I will want to marry this girl.

[colin77]

I believe after the first 2 conversation

[Slim57]

When she's relationship material

[NamerOfStars]

With a specific girl, or just in general?

[Himisadude]

Almost instantly. Within a few mins for sure.

[username1580]

i know when i want to spend more time with her

[In_Trance]

Probably somewhere around the age of 45 to 50

[zagor]

I'll let you know when it happens.

[DaModernDaVinci]

When I’m earning at least AU$52,000 per annum.

[Tstrbrainer]

When I feel horny😅

[knight2468]

When I feel lonely