How can you tell when a girl likes you or interested?

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I'm tryna figure if this girl at my job has any interest in me. I sometimes catch her staring at me and sometimes we laugh about it and other times I'll just catch her staring. She has told me she is talking to someone but that doesn't mean we can't talk as well. But I haven't seen any sign of significant interest so I'm really just going off her overall vibe and the staring? Since it's pretty vague it's throwing me off any thoughts?

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JDavid25 | 913 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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She seems interested, but it held back cause maybe she is attached to the other person she is talkin to.. Obviously she seems attracted to you, but maybe just feel obligated to the other person..

MLGbreezy

14 d
That's what I been thinking cause in terms of when we text she doesn't reply quick and doesn't seem all to interested but like I even tested it at work yesterday just to try and see if maybe I was imagining and as far as I can tell we definitely be locking eyes frequently.
JDavid25

14 d
Yeah, I would say that she is attracted to you definitely, but it seems like she is fine with likin you from afar because of the other person she is into..
MLGbreezy

14 d
Makes sense I don't want to be to aggressive and push her away at all but now comes the issue of how do I proceed from here
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JDavid25

14 d
Well, you can let it be known that you are into her if you already haven't, flirt with her playfully, and see where it goes from there.. Maybe when you feel more sure ask her to hang out... That's the best non agreesive advice I could give you. 😅
MLGbreezy

14 d
That's what I've been doing Lmao when I asked her out she said she was talking to someone and I have been flirting just subtly but no change just the staring got a little more noticeable this time around but like the last two days no replies to my texts at all
MLGbreezy

14 d
Or maybe I just paid more attention and noticed more of the glancing/staring so I don't know and she doesn't like flirt back unless she has been and I haven't noticed
MLGbreezy

14 d
So I'm very much confused 😂
MLGbreezy

14 d
Maybe I'm just seeing things and she just staring at sum behind me or sum 😭
JDavid25

14 d
She most likely is starin at you.. We always second guess ourselves but most times it's like we see it.. But yeah it seems like she is playin.. But yeah I think for a while it might be time for you to step back, and not show her much of any attention at that point, cause in the end it'll only cause you confusion and you'll continually wonder "did she look at me?" "Is she talkin about?".. And all that good ish.. At this point there's not much more you can do..
MLGbreezy

14 d
Yeah and she actually ended up texting me a reply today but overall I think I'ma take a step back and just see what happens I want a little break anyway
JDavid25

14 d
That's good man.. She could be playin hard to get, or just really hesitant to start anything with you, but all we know is that right now she ain't trying to do anything, or show interest in you.
MLGbreezy

14 d
Exactly so I'ma just do me and see if things change if not then it wasn't meant to be
JDavid25

14 d
Yeah that true.. I always make the mistake of havin too much hope and keepin things goin when I know there's nothin that might happen.. So that's good.. 😎👍.
MLGbreezy

14 d
Same here although I've been a lot better with it but that's cause I haven't wanted a relationship so I don't really care to much but she is the first girl I've tried to actually talk to since my last relationship a year ago so I'm making a few rookie mistakes but going forward I'm gonna take how she acting and move accordingly
MLGbreezy

14 d
But I'll also try not to overthink things to much which i tend to do
JDavid25

14 d
Yeah, I do the same thing so I feel your pain bro..
MLGbreezy

14 d
Yea but I appreciate the advice take it easy yo
JDavid25

14 d
Haha of course I feel you.. Well at the moment you are probably better than me.. I mean I had to start talkin to another girl to get over the one I was pining for, for about a year.. But yeah, hopefully you haven't started havin thoughts about her. That would help you stay chill for the time being..
JDavid25

14 d
Of course, no problem bro.. You too.. I hope it works out for you.. 😎
MLGbreezy

14 d
Lol not having thoughts about the girl I think is cute is always the hardest part for me but I've learned to not do that or else I'ma get attached and I don't need those problems I think that's what helps me the most especially if she not showing me no attention I always look at it like well I can always find some even badder than you so why waste my time I think of the potential possibilities but I still gotta long way to go
JDavid25

13 d
Yeah that's the way to go.. It definitely is hard though, especially if she is cute, and she seems interested in you.. I'm very similar.. I can't have too many thoughts or I get attached.. But I'm glad you are workin on it, and it's helpin you.. I try to think k like that.. I've acknowledged women were better lookin than the girl I had a crush on, and it didn't work for me, but that's probably cause the crush was already too deep, plus she is the closest thing to a type I have. But yeah it seems like you haven't gotten too far with it, although if you are askin this question it's gotten to a point where there's probably some thoughts about her. 😅
MLGbreezy

13 d
Oh yeah when she is very much your type it can be hard and to be fair I do have thoughts if the girl but not to the point where she always on my mind this question is more out of confusion and to learn cause yea I might be talking about this specific girl rn. Cause she is the only one I'm really talking to but If this happens in the future I'll know how to deal with it you know
JDavid25

13 d
Yeah most definitely.. It can definitely be hard if she is.. But yeah well if she ain't trying to do anything with you it seems like you have this in the bag really.. But yeah it is good to know this stuff in the future and to learn for next time, although it ain't always easy not to fall back into old habits..
MLGbreezy

13 d
True

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