How come when you date someone you like they dont take you serious but then when you start dating people you don't like they want to take you serious?

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Butterflyy88

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Because they realised they lost your interest and want the attention back.
I think it's an ego thing.

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The guys who ask you out they act like they are interested and then all of sudden they ghost you. But when you do the same thing to men they get mad. Why is it only ok when men do wrong? That is my question
Butterflyy88

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Oh I've had this situation!
Probably because they thought they could get away with it, and now you've played them at their own game their ego has been hurt, and they can't handle that their actions have consequences.
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Either way it doesn't make sense it is annoying and childish. Especially if you are dating people online they aren't going to take you serious. Men find women to be desperate and it is an easy way for them to get sex from women. It is best not to take bad behavior personal because that is when you be have a waste of a body count when they just wanted to get in your pants from the beginning.
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Butterflyy88

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I completely agree with you, unfortunately that's all that guys on dating apps want with women these days.

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Asker

The guys who ask you out they act like they are interested and then all of sudden they ghost you. But when you do the same thing to men they get mad. Why is it only ok when men do wrong? That is my question

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Butterflyy88

Oh I've had this situation!
Probably because they thought they could get away with it, and now you've played them at their own game their ego has been hurt, and they can't handle that their actions have consequences.

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Asker

Either way it doesn't make sense it is annoying and childish. Especially if you are dating people online they aren't going to take you serious. Men find women to be desperate and it is an easy way for them to get sex from women. It is best not to take bad behavior personal because that is when you be have a waste of a body count when they just wanted to get in your pants from the beginning.

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Butterflyy88

I completely agree with you, unfortunately that's all that guys on dating apps want with women these days.

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chris_987 | 464 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Why would you date people you don’t like? Must be nice being a girl

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That is what men do they love bomb you and than ghost you. I don't understand why it is only ok when a man acts the fool.
chris_987

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I can’t relate, I’ve never had a girl that I didn’t like ask me out
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I mean when the man asked the woman out and shows a lot of interest and then suddenly disappears. Why do men date you if they aren't interested for long term? Do they just want sex because when a woman does what a man does in that case it isn't right. The woman has to move on and be the bigger when the guy shows red flags.
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chris_987

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I wish I could help, but I Doubt any girls are gonna ask me out then stop showing interest in me

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Asker

That is what men do they love bomb you and than ghost you. I don't understand why it is only ok when a man acts the fool.

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chris_987

I can’t relate, I’ve never had a girl that I didn’t like ask me out

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Asker

I mean when the man asked the woman out and shows a lot of interest and then suddenly disappears. Why do men date you if they aren't interested for long term? Do they just want sex because when a woman does what a man does in that case it isn't right. The woman has to move on and be the bigger when the guy shows red flags.