Can you meet just for sex with someone you had feelings for?

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I spended a month or. more with this girl we really liked each other we were like in a relationship everything was amazing but she left because she study and work on another city.. i found out she was playing around with other guys there and she told. me she had done something while we were on distance.. we never said we are together or anything but she would want to sleep on camera with me.. call me everyday talk for. hours everyday u know.. like a relationship.. now she came. back and i found out this... i dont know if i can be with her until she leaves again... because i have feelings for her and it bothers me that she dates also other guys... what would u do? honestly..

Also there is one girl who is veryyy beautiful with a good heart and she wants to be with me like. crazy..

I dont know what to do.. help me?

Answer 1

Gedaria | 2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Yes, you may have feelings for her or him , but the main thing in your relationship is sex.
My latest girlfriend is a bit like that.
She is bisexual and she spends her time either in South Africa or Canada and stays with me in between.
I know she has gfs in Africa and in Canada.
I really enjoy her company when she is here and we chat on Zoom where ever she is but I know she gets up close and personal with her gfs , I have seen them on Zoom.
For me I find it a great set up, plus it leaves me to have the occasional girlfriend...

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leftis25

17 d
Soo u have feelings for her but it doesn't bother u she fucked around? And not just with girls.
Gedaria

17 d
She has her needs but it's only women.
leftis25

17 d
You would be ok with it if she was seeing other guys instead of womens?
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Gedaria

17 d
It's a long story but she doesn't go after guys.
We got to know each other through my late wife who was bisexual.
After m wife's death we became friends and it grew into something else.
When she was in the UK she stayed with me and got close.
Myself being non-binary and trans , we got very close...
leftis25

17 d
Soo it doesn't bother you if when she is away she sleep with other people?
Gedaria

17 d
A little, more jealousy than anything.
But I have my the same thing going so it works. ..
leftis25

17 d
Mmm soo should i cut her off and ĺeave her and be with the other girl who really likes me? Or should i keep seeing her while she is here until the other girl comes.. but if she founds out i had someone else during this time she will cry really a lot.
Gedaria

17 d
It's what you want out of the relationship. For me she is a great friend and we have lesbian sex. I have no desire f anything else neither does she, I works for us.
For you, are you happy the time you spend together, putting anything she gets up to.
If you are happy with why spoil it...
leftis25

17 d
I am happy with her... but it bothers me that i know when she leaves from my place and i see her somewhere out she may be flirt with someone else or she may see other guys also.. i dont know...
Gedaria

17 d
That is something you will have to live with to be part of her life.
Try and think of her happiness. It sounds strange I know but this young lady has a strange life...

Answer 2

leftis25

Soo u have feelings for her but it doesn't bother u she fucked around? And not just with girls.

Answer 3

Gedaria

She has her needs but it's only women.

Answer 4

leftis25

You would be ok with it if she was seeing other guys instead of womens?

Answer 5

Gedaria

It's a long story but she doesn't go after guys.
We got to know each other through my late wife who was bisexual.
After m wife's death we became friends and it grew into something else.
When she was in the UK she stayed with me and got close.
Myself being non-binary and trans , we got very close...

Answer 6

leftis25

Soo it doesn't bother you if when she is away she sleep with other people?

Answer 7

Gedaria

A little, more jealousy than anything.
But I have my the same thing going so it works. ..

Answer 8

leftis25

Mmm soo should i cut her off and ĺeave her and be with the other girl who really likes me? Or should i keep seeing her while she is here until the other girl comes.. but if she founds out i had someone else during this time she will cry really a lot.

Answer 9

Gedaria

It's what you want out of the relationship. For me she is a great friend and we have lesbian sex. I have no desire f anything else neither does she, I works for us.
For you, are you happy the time you spend together, putting anything she gets up to.
If you are happy with why spoil it...

Answer 10

leftis25

I am happy with her... but it bothers me that i know when she leaves from my place and i see her somewhere out she may be flirt with someone else or she may see other guys also.. i dont know...

Answer 11

Gedaria

That is something you will have to live with to be part of her life.
Try and think of her happiness. It sounds strange I know but this young lady has a strange life...

Answer 12

Chikky | 275 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Influencer

If you don't trust her why bother still being with her

leftis25

17 d
I dont trust her for sure..
Chikky

17 d
So leave her and stop wasting your time with her
leftis25

17 d
But i like her and i have good time with her... at least before.. now that i can't trust her i dont know.. what would u do? If u really like someone but they betrayed you and they told they want to keep seeing you and sorry and bla bla
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Chikky

17 d
I will cut ties with them

Answer 13

leftis25

I dont trust her for sure..

Answer 14

Chikky

So leave her and stop wasting your time with her

Answer 15

leftis25

But i like her and i have good time with her... at least before.. now that i can't trust her i dont know.. what would u do? If u really like someone but they betrayed you and they told they want to keep seeing you and sorry and bla bla

Answer 16

Chikky

I will cut ties with them

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