We have been dating for 3 months, never fight never argue. Totally have our own things going on and usually only see each other 1 or 2 nights a week or some weeks not at all because of other commitments. Last week we sort of had plans but not written in stone, he didn't call, didn't answer the phone. Then I get a call saying he was helping a neighbor cut a tree down and got into the beer. Which is fine, no biggy, stuff happens. He called for 3 days nothing for the last 2 days and I just tried calling him and no answer. Would think if he wanted to end it he'd be man enough to say so, but have no clue where this is coming from.
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You guys sound very casual and non-committal here, with comments like "see each other...some weeks not at all" and a statement about a missed date of "Which is fine, no biggy, stuff happens".
I am over 45 and I have a lot of girlfriends who are dating at my age too. One problem dating in our age range is that we can be so casual and kept happy with other priorities and people that we just don't give enough juice to the person we are dating. I have one girlfriend who says things like "Any guy I like has to know he comes second to my kids and friends." Well it's great she puts her kids first and her friends are a priority, but honestly she should just not date then because anyone who would give their heart and soul to you will want the same in return, not be put last place after everything else.
So, you had a lukewarm dating deal here and it appears to be fizzling out. Who knows if it is out for the count, but it is cooling off from something that wasn't very hot to begin with, from your description.0