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So I'm dating someone he's super nice but in some ways his behavior is off-putting. For example his car has been in the shop since I met him which I didn't think was weird but it's been like a month now. Since he dosen't have a car rn I pick him up sometimes but never at his apartment which supposedly he doesn't want me to see yet because he's still settling in since he just moved here. I never drop him off at his apartment either. He works remote but I do not know when because it seems like he's always free and on FB all day. Do you think he's lying or hiding things?

Answer 1

babysteph

Xper 5

def sounds like he’s jobless/low income. if he isn’t upfront with you about it, that’s a red flag for sure.

Asker

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Well at first he seemed like he was genuine but I noticed this after a couple weeks... like I don't know I understand people sometimes struggle to get furniture at first. California is expensive and it's not like I'm rich either but the fact that I've never seen his front door bothers me. Makes me think there is no front door
babysteph

13 d
Yeah I understand that. Maybe ask to go to his house or ask if he wants to go together to see how his car is doing? You don’t seem like the judgmental type so if there is a car and a house and he’s just embarrassed of it, I’m sure you wouldn’t shame him. But if there is no car or house and he’s been lying to you then you have a right to know abs a right to leave him for lying
Asker

13 d
I'm not judgmental I just want honestly like you said. I'm not exactly in the beat situation myself moat college students are in shitty housing situations. I just don't know if he's being honest. The last thing I need is another liar in my life.

Answer 2

Asker

Well at first he seemed like he was genuine but I noticed this after a couple weeks... like I don't know I understand people sometimes struggle to get furniture at first. California is expensive and it's not like I'm rich either but the fact that I've never seen his front door bothers me. Makes me think there is no front door

Answer 3

babysteph

Yeah I understand that. Maybe ask to go to his house or ask if he wants to go together to see how his car is doing? You don’t seem like the judgmental type so if there is a car and a house and he’s just embarrassed of it, I’m sure you wouldn’t shame him. But if there is no car or house and he’s been lying to you then you have a right to know abs a right to leave him for lying

Answer 4

Asker

I'm not judgmental I just want honestly like you said. I'm not exactly in the beat situation myself moat college students are in shitty housing situations. I just don't know if he's being honest. The last thing I need is another liar in my life.

Answer 5

CapnHawk | 1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Trust your gut on this one. I smell something fishy about his behavior.

Answer 6

MrCommodore | 324 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Sounds like he unemployed guy living with his parents 🙄

Asker

13 d
This one can't be his mom is dead and his dad was never around. So it's something like this but I don't know what

Answer 7

Asker

This one can't be his mom is dead and his dad was never around. So it's something like this but I don't know what

Answer 8

In_Trance | 3.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

fuck yeah... why are you still doing this? smh

Asker

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Actually I'm ending it today

Answer 9

Asker

Actually I'm ending it today

Answer 10

Agem123 | 1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

He's hiding things.

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