I feel insecure! What Do I Do?

[FlutteringFeelings]

No man has the power to make you insecure. We can only feel insecure about ourselves when we haven’t dealt with what we were insecure about to begin with. A toxic man coming along and bringing you down is just an extra trigger to your insecurity that was already there. The question is do you love yourself regardless of what those have to say around you? His preference may be thick but do you love yourself skinny? We can point out someone’s bad character but we have to also acknowledge for ourselves that there is some internal work that needs to be done. If you are confident in yourself then someone can walk up to you and say that you are not pretty and you will not be shaken.


Knowing who YOU are is not allowing the opinions of others to define your identity. If you identify your worth based off of the opinions of others you will always be in the cycle of insecurities. We can only blame someone for so long as to why we feel less of ourselves. Love yourself and the insecurities will have no place in your heart anymore.

[Alyssa11]

boobs are boobs, whether they're small or not. And loads of guys actually prefer small boobs.

I have small boobs too, so you're not alone. Stay confident in your sexuality and don't let a douchebag affect that.

[V4mp315]

Been there, heard that!. ik exactly what you mean when it comes to feel like s*** about the comments they say about you but as we all know already, NO ONE WILL EVER PLEASE ANYONE! no matter what they're always gonna shitty people like that. And honestly we can't go around in our life's trying to please everyone EXCEPT OUR SELFS! Always be you, and whatever you end up doing in your life make sure that u are doing it FOR YOU not FOR ANYONE ELSE

[Yanifah]

He cheated on you, but a comment about your breast size is what really bothers you? Wow...

You'll appreciate smaller breast as you get older. They stay perky.

[SavageGirl101]

Stop worrying about what a man thinks about you they aren’t important anyways