That’s very true... I kind of thought the same thing... not like the person is like an addicted druggie type of deal breaker 😂
But in long-term, would you date someone who may not want kids if that’s something you prefer but might not mind it? Like would you be okay/happy as long as you found that compatible person?
I'm flexible on it TBH, but I guess if someone really wanted kids they should find someone with the same goals. I mean it doesn't matter if you're 19 or something, as you aren't likely to be with that person very long anyway, but if you're looking for a mature relationship it certainly matters.
What do you mean you’re flexible about it? Well yeah this is more in regards of a long lasting relationship lol.
I don't really have any plans to have kids, but if I met someone I was really into and they wanted kids, I would consent. I really don't think of myself as having kids without considering the matter of the woman I would be having them with.
Lmao damn I feel like I’m like you 😂😂😂
Except the opposite situation
Do you want to have kids then?
For a while I wasn’t sure just cuz I was afraid I won’t have enough time due to work and kids deserve everything. I would wanna be the best mom. Recently I realized I do! Lol. But I don't know this situation is abit complicated 😅
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So you wouldn’t date someone who don’t want kids?
if i had kids before her then yea i would but if not then no i wouldn't
Date is not a relationship
Because the kids thing may change.
But what if the kids stuff may not change? LOL. I don't know.. I’m tryna figure it out long-term will I really be happy/okay with it.. I feel like I may not mind it, but I hope I won’t become one of those people who are depress over it if I found the love of my life tho
I understand and I worry about that some to.