Would you date someone who’s compatible yet don’t want kids while you don’t mind not having kids but prefer wanting kids?

Question

Why or why not?

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9 d

I meant date as in being in a relationship

Answer 1

ColHathi | 373 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Yes. For one thing the relationship's never gonna be perfect, and I don't have the luxury of a long line of people just waiting to date me. Why pass on that if it's not a dealbreaker?

bobalife

12 d
That’s very true... I kind of thought the same thing... not like the person is like an addicted druggie type of deal breaker 😂
ColHathi

12 d
Exactly ^^

Answer 2

bobalife

That’s very true... I kind of thought the same thing... not like the person is like an addicted druggie type of deal breaker 😂

Answer 3

ColHathi

Exactly ^^

Answer 4

zagor | 6.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

At this point I'll date anyone I'm compatible with (and attracted to). I save tomorrow for tomorrow.

bobalife

12 d
But in long-term, would you date someone who may not want kids if that’s something you prefer but might not mind it? Like would you be okay/happy as long as you found that compatible person?
zagor

12 d
I'm flexible on it TBH, but I guess if someone really wanted kids they should find someone with the same goals. I mean it doesn't matter if you're 19 or something, as you aren't likely to be with that person very long anyway, but if you're looking for a mature relationship it certainly matters.
bobalife

12 d
What do you mean you’re flexible about it? Well yeah this is more in regards of a long lasting relationship lol.
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zagor

12 d
I don't really have any plans to have kids, but if I met someone I was really into and they wanted kids, I would consent. I really don't think of myself as having kids without considering the matter of the woman I would be having them with.
bobalife

12 d
Lmao damn I feel like I’m like you 😂😂😂
bobalife

12 d
Except the opposite situation
zagor

12 d
Do you want to have kids then?
bobalife

12 d
For a while I wasn’t sure just cuz I was afraid I won’t have enough time due to work and kids deserve everything. I would wanna be the best mom. Recently I realized I do! Lol. But I don't know this situation is abit complicated 😅

Answer 5

bobalife

But in long-term, would you date someone who may not want kids if that’s something you prefer but might not mind it? Like would you be okay/happy as long as you found that compatible person?

Answer 6

zagor

I'm flexible on it TBH, but I guess if someone really wanted kids they should find someone with the same goals. I mean it doesn't matter if you're 19 or something, as you aren't likely to be with that person very long anyway, but if you're looking for a mature relationship it certainly matters.

Answer 7

bobalife

What do you mean you’re flexible about it? Well yeah this is more in regards of a long lasting relationship lol.

Answer 8

zagor

I don't really have any plans to have kids, but if I met someone I was really into and they wanted kids, I would consent. I really don't think of myself as having kids without considering the matter of the woman I would be having them with.

Answer 9

bobalife

Lmao damn I feel like I’m like you 😂😂😂

Answer 10

bobalife

Except the opposite situation

Answer 11

zagor

Do you want to have kids then?

Answer 12

bobalife

For a while I wasn’t sure just cuz I was afraid I won’t have enough time due to work and kids deserve everything. I would wanna be the best mom. Recently I realized I do! Lol. But I don't know this situation is abit complicated 😅

Answer 13

Gooblegobble | 67 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

No. If someone wants kids, they're always going to want kids and they will not be happy. As a man, when a woman makes it clear to me that she wants kids in the immediate future, I end things so she can have a chance at finding someone who can give her that. I eventually want kids, but further down the road than they are willing to wait. Also, if a woman wanted no kids, I would leave her so that I could find someone who has the same goals as me. It is a major life choice that you and your partner should be in complete agreement on, in my opinion.

Answer 14

hellacray | 1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Wow those are a lot of words you packed in there.

Dating sure, but long term definitely no.

I definitely want kids in the future so if she doesn't well there's no point in keeping her around.

Answer 15

MikeTheBartender | 149 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

I have a vasectomy and am very up front w serious babes about it (not ransoms and one night stands). If she truly wants kids i won't date her.

Answer 16

Reaperbot666

Guru

if we're compatible otherwise in the relationship. then her not wanting future children wouldn't be a deal breaker. because I am on the fence about having future children myself.

Answer 17

SunnySri | 189 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

I would date her mam, If I am living a happy life with her and i do not necessarily mind not having kids then why should i give up something good.

Answer 18

jasco | 763 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

i want kids, i couldn't deal with not being a father. i just wanna experience it. Afterwards idc

bobalife

12 d
So you wouldn’t date someone who don’t want kids?
jasco

12 d
if i had kids before her then yea i would but if not then no i wouldn't

Answer 19

bobalife

So you wouldn’t date someone who don’t want kids?

Answer 20

jasco

if i had kids before her then yea i would but if not then no i wouldn't

Answer 21

anudroid

Xper 5

On the look of it why not.. I would date.. it's not like I would end up with her.. so would definitely be yes for me

Answer 22

msc545 | 881 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Yes, bringing kids into this world may not be a good thing.

Answer 23

mrgspoter | 779 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

I can change mind right

mrgspoter

9 d
Date is not a relationship

Answer 24

mrgspoter

Date is not a relationship

Answer 25

berserk945 | 164 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Yes, i think i would

bobalife

12 d
Why?
berserk945

12 d
Because the kids thing may change.
berserk945

12 d
Would you?
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bobalife

12 d
But what if the kids stuff may not change? LOL. I don't know.. I’m tryna figure it out long-term will I really be happy/okay with it.. I feel like I may not mind it, but I hope I won’t become one of those people who are depress over it if I found the love of my life tho
berserk945

12 d
I understand and I worry about that some to.

Answer 26

bobalife

Why?

Answer 27

berserk945

Because the kids thing may change.

Answer 28

berserk945

Would you?

Answer 29

bobalife

But what if the kids stuff may not change? LOL. I don't know.. I’m tryna figure it out long-term will I really be happy/okay with it.. I feel like I may not mind it, but I hope I won’t become one of those people who are depress over it if I found the love of my life tho

Answer 30

berserk945

I understand and I worry about that some to.

Answer 31

bklynbadboy1 | 1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Nah I want kids

Answer 32

Lonelywolfxl

Xper 5

No I want kids

Answer 33

Anonymous

Yeah surely.

Would you date someone who’s compatible yet don’t want kids while you don’t mind not having kids but prefer wanting kids?

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