Girls would you date a guy that is NOT attracted to you? Like he likes everything about you? hhe asks you out but you KNOW he's no attracted to you?

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Answer 1

evangeline777 | 51 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Why would he ask me out then?
I would not date him because it would be a horrible feeling to wait for him to find a girl he is attracted to and drop me.
This feels like he would just settle with me and that's a big no.

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Duh! because he likes your personality
Settle with you? Lol
evangeline777

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He is not attracted means he settles with a friend.
Asker

7 d
Well that's your take. It actually means he values who you are over what you look like
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evangeline777

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Yes, that's my take. I don't know, I'm not a man, but if a man is not attracted to my looks, how is he going to have sex with me? If I don't turn him on.
It is really-really great that he values my personality, I really want that with a partner but is he asexual?
Or can he get an erection at all if he is not turned on by me? Would he be thinking of other women for that?
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He might not have sex with you. Is that necessary? Maybe he just needs time to connect physically. But it's concievable that he'd never want to sleep with you. And no he's not rhinking about other women... at least no more rhan any other red blooded guy. But he isn't cheating on you nor has any desire to.
Would you date him?
evangeline777

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To be honest, probably I would. It is better to be loved for a few years, then being alone.
Although I would need to be 100% honest with him as I assume if he liked everything about me, we would be pretty close, so I'd like him too so I guess I could be honest that I would date but I really couldn't promise to stay with him forever as maybe few years down the line I'd be insanely horny, also, it need to be an affectionate thing, hugs and cuddles.
And he has to promise me that if he feels like he wants to be with someone else, he tells me so we can work out some solution.

I've been thinking of this question during the day. I don't understand how can one like everything about the other and not being attracted to her.

Answer 2

Asker

Duh! because he likes your personality
Settle with you? Lol

Answer 3

evangeline777

He is not attracted means he settles with a friend.

Answer 4

Asker

Well that's your take. It actually means he values who you are over what you look like

Answer 5

evangeline777

Yes, that's my take. I don't know, I'm not a man, but if a man is not attracted to my looks, how is he going to have sex with me? If I don't turn him on.
It is really-really great that he values my personality, I really want that with a partner but is he asexual?
Or can he get an erection at all if he is not turned on by me? Would he be thinking of other women for that?

Answer 6

Asker

He might not have sex with you. Is that necessary? Maybe he just needs time to connect physically. But it's concievable that he'd never want to sleep with you. And no he's not rhinking about other women... at least no more rhan any other red blooded guy. But he isn't cheating on you nor has any desire to.
Would you date him?

Answer 7

evangeline777

To be honest, probably I would. It is better to be loved for a few years, then being alone.
Although I would need to be 100% honest with him as I assume if he liked everything about me, we would be pretty close, so I'd like him too so I guess I could be honest that I would date but I really couldn't promise to stay with him forever as maybe few years down the line I'd be insanely horny, also, it need to be an affectionate thing, hugs and cuddles.
And he has to promise me that if he feels like he wants to be with someone else, he tells me so we can work out some solution.

I've been thinking of this question during the day. I don't understand how can one like everything about the other and not being attracted to her.

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Ally247 | 377 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Hell no

Answer 9

Anonymous

what a weird feeling

Girls would you date a guy that is NOT attracted to you? Like he likes everything about you? hhe asks you out but you KNOW he's no attracted to you?

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