Well there is this girl that I recently met and wanted to get to know. I recently found out she has a young kid. Mind you I am a single guy without any kids, so to me that is a big thing. I do eventually want kids, but it would be something a little later on (even though I am older aka 35 years old). It's just that I am walking into a pre-made family, and there are a lot of different aspects of going out with a woman with a kid (aka Baby Daddy drama, when it comes to discipline, etc). I just don't know how to let her down softly, because everything I think of comes off as pretty bad. My reasoning for even wanting to let her know, I feel it is the right thing (despite not talking that much, and not even going on one date). I am looking for advice on how to let her down softly. Thanks in advance.