Is meeting my boyfriend's parents within 2.5 months of dating too early?

[btbc92]

It depenfs on what you want. He thinks your worth being pernant with. I don't understand this what's the point of calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend if you're not looking for serious commitment? If you're just looking for fun and just fooling around then you might as well just telling the truth instead of giving him unrealistic expectations. If you know that you are not that person then you have nothing to really worry about. I believe is best to date a friend and people that you knew for years instead of been strangers. That way your family's already know each other. Your friends are your friends when you truly. And you don't have much issues. If you before already declaring each other that far already been no it is not too early.

At the end of the day you got to look at it like this. You already have a history of past boyfriends where you already met all that parents. But you have nothing permanent with them. Seriously think about why you getting to these relationships if it's not going to last.

[midnightmoon05]

I was 27, he was 26. Met right after 911... so yea... around 2 1/2 months. I was invited to his parents best friends for Thanksgiving. I was fine.

If you are not ready, you can talk to him about it.
I don't think we can make the decision for you.

[jack187625]

I met my now SO's mother within the first month. It depends how close they are as a family. Has she met mine? Nope. Probably won't for awhile either, my family lives further away, hers are around the corner.

It all depends on lifestyles. If you are to nervous, say something. If you are worried that it feels like you are going to fast. Say something. It takes two people for your relationship to work. Don't just go along with everything, you have an opinion, express it.

[WalterBlack]

It depends on how much your relationship has progressed in the last 2.5 months. If you are taking things slow, its probably too soon. If you are already thinking that your boyfriend is someone you could spend the rest of your life with, it probably is a reasonable time to meet his family.

[OlderAndWiser]

Perhaps you two are not on the same page with where you are going and how quickly you want to get there. You need to have a talk with your boyfriend about this.

[Bolt1104]

My Boyfriend and I where friends beforehand so he met my mom before we started to date about over a year. Now the rest of my family he met them about a month before we started to date he's just been so amazing.

[Gooblegobble]

It is a little early. Just tell him so and if he isn't a douche, he should understand. I don't know if a year is the right time either, but two months is certainly not.

[Paris13]

Not too Soon. With Covid, One never Knows how it Goes---Next Year, dear. No Fear. Ask what You can Bring? xxoo

[RawIronhide]

I think that's about right, you're thinking to long term I think, someone would meet my perents within the first month maybe week 2.

[supercutebutt]

Do you realize we are in a global pandemic? Don't let him introduce you to anyone, you disease-spreading monster!

[Anonymous]

Depends how your relationship is going. There's no time table as far as I'm concerned. But if you feel it's too early, say something. He obviously likes you enough.

[sheikalana]

I would wait between 6months-1year but every relationship is different.

[Anonymous]

If he want you to meet his parent, then that mean he is serious about you. There are no rules, so that is not too early.

[Anonymous]

It depends - if you both want you to meet them it should be okay. 🙏👍🤷

[thatgirlinlove]

keep taking your time and some day you will be sitting alone in your home wondering where are all the good men.

[jimmy2]

Could be... but.. i married my girl afyer 2 weeks lasted 36 years untill she passed

[Pete671]

Seems about right imho, he's def serious about you I feel, inviting you to a family event like this,,,

[flamiE]

Yeah it’s probably a little early..

[anon1903]

If you guys are awfully commuted to it, no

[michael1469]

Statically, you will probably not see them next Thanksgiving.

[Cherokeehp]

Nope.

[Iron_Man]

Yes it is

[Anonymous]

dating is pointless we are at the end

[In_Trance]

not really