Should I text him or wait for him to text me?

[Itsok2behapp-e]

Text him.


If it carries on like this it'll be "Hey, just checking you took a breath, did you?"


"Oh hi! Yes, I did, thanks for asking. By the way, did you remember to breathe too?"


'Yes, I did."


"Great! So, what are you upto then?"


"Just focusing on my breathing. Have been for the last 65 years!"


"Snap! Me too! I'm so glad we got each other to check if we're still breathing."


"Oh you're so kind, thank you!"


"Don't want to interrupt the flow my dear, but just wanted to check, did you breathe in between messaging me?"


"Yes, I did my dear."


"Good good!"


"Any plans for tonight?"


"Well at my age I don't go out anymore... Stopped since I 'met' you as I just stay indoors nowadays and keep each other company, you know, breathing buddies!"


"I know how you feel. I don't go out either. So comforting to have you at the end of the phone, knowing you care for me and check every 5 seconds or so if I'm still breathing!"


"Bless you my dear. You're such a good breathing buddy!"


"You're so kind. I don't know what I'd do without you."


"Don't get upset, please don't get upset. Remember to breathe, in deep, out slow, in deep, out slow, just keep a steady rhythm"


"Thank you."


"No, thank you."


Is this what you want Ms Anonymous? A lifetime spent indoors comforting each other, checking upon each other that each other is still alive and breathing?


You spent your entire lives back and forth messaging that you never got to meet in person and now what?


Waiting for the day when one of you will no longer reply when the other one checks in on the other if they're still breathing... They're going to be heartbroken.


Text him.
Arrange a meet.
Keep it simple.
Go for a coffee and a cake.
Pay for yourselves.
Go for a walk afterwards.
Hold hands ;-)
Enjoy the sunset.
Get him to walk you home safe and well.
Have a kiss goodnight.
Once you're indoors and he's on his way home, take a breath, in deep, out slow.
And... smile :-)


Do it, you know you want to!

[Zealashton]

online dating is the worst thing ever, honestly, shure it works out at times, but the rare cases are like woofi chew, a youtuber animator, that met their boyfreind online, and well she took a big gamble and it worked, out,

you could message them, but honestly, you should have asked to switch to say facebook or Skype, or discored, or other chat sit, that allows more time talking, but really, tinder is pretty much a hook up and fuck app lols have you seen family guy lols, also , he has plow though 50000000 wemon jsut to get 1 reply. soo he may have forgotin about you, lols,
trust me
i tried the stupied she, and i one reply out of 300 highs, and likes and i dont remember the none of them. it really devalues people who use date apps and sits

[yucychan]

You could text him and ask him when he's free to meet up for a meal or something.

[Anonymous]

You're in your 30s, why are you playing these dumb games?

[J_12_L]

You have all the power. You decide

[that1guy19]

Why wouldn't you text him?

[Protein_mate]

Text him

[Anonymous]

hahaha lol