Did I do Something wrong or is the girl crazy?

Question

So I met this girl online. We hit it off and had tons of texting and many phone calls. We even talked about a future together and what it would be like when we live together. We met and again perfect. We really liked each other. I explained exactly what I wanted from her and that was for her to Love me and I would Love her. ( Clearly stated) .
So we meet again and I ask her if she would stop seeing other people and I would do the same. I asked her to be my Girlfriend and gave her a Georgous Promise ring. Later on the phone she told me she was Scared and Ghosted me !

Was I wrong or was she wrong.. do you think she will ever contact me or just put the 1k ring in a draw and more on?

Updates:

6 d

Sorry guys you are all wrong. We are talking about seeing one another again.

Answer 1

Gooblegobble | 67 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

You moved way too fucking fast, bro. Was that the first girl you’ve ever really talked to? Not trying to insult you, but 1k on a promise ring? Telling her you expect her love? You’re supposed to just think that shit, save it for like 6 months down the road. You really don’t know each other yet. No girl even wants a promise ring, it’s gay.

sabwafair

6 d
Be Aware I'm 54 and she is 60 it's different. Time is ticking and we don't have much. We already talked in detail about Living together. See
sabwafair

6 d
I'm Been Married Twice and Dated hundreds.
sabwafair

6 d
Never said it was one k just $400
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Gooblegobble

6 d
A 60 year old is still a woman. She wants to feel like one. You probably made her feel like you needed to get things moving before you’re both in the ground.
sabwafair

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I also was married with 2 children when I were born.
sabwafair

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She wants Marriage. What when were 80
Gooblegobble

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Yeah, and now you’re single, maybe you aren’t as good at this as you think? You asked for advice and I gave it. Sorry I didn’t tell you what you wanted to hear, but that wouldn’t have actually helped you.
sabwafair

6 d
Thanks for you help. I understand what your saying. If I was 20/ 30 or 40 I would have never done this.
sabwafair

6 d
Maybe but I got another date TODAY !!
sabwafair

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With her
Gooblegobble

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See, you’re moving too fast. Sometimes just slow down and don’t take the advice too personally. Strangers will give you the truth because they don’t care one way or the other, they just call it like they see it. I don’t care what happens with your life, I just see you’re moving too fast. Slow down, be romantic without being clingy and things might work out.
sabwafair

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Honestly when I gave it to her her answer was how did you know I like Jewelry.
sabwafair

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I agree and thank you. That's why I'm on here. I'm not all knowing.
Gooblegobble

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She didn’t know what else to say because a 54 year old man just gave her a promise ring. It was probably a huge turn off.
sabwafair

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Can I follow u
Gooblegobble

6 d
Sure.
sabwafair

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U may be right but she accepted it and we have another date so yes CHILL THE FUCK OUT FOR SURE !!
Gooblegobble

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You got this. She’s into you and if you chill a little bit you’ll be in those guts in no time.
sabwafair

6 d
Thanks I value your advice.

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