What About A Girl Or Guy Grabs And Holds Your Attention?

[Shuri]

Proper grammar and sentence structure, and I don't say that because I'm an English teacher. I hate when guys can't write or speak well. It is such a turn off, and they sound dumb as hell. Physically, it's a guy that works with his hands. My job makes people think I should be with a lawyer or an accountant or something, but my boyfriend is a construction inspector, and it is suuuuuuuch a turn on.

[applebottomjeans]

When he is really passionate about something, anything really, i would literally listen to him talk about it for hours , i am not very talkative and i like listening more. Also if we have similar interests and we can just vibe together ig

[jennifer_bloom]

Decency and Class and Grace

[Lily654]

Something that grabs my attention in a guy is their personality. If they are nice, i would probably want to hang out with them. If you are refering to crushes, then it takes me a long time to develop one. I have to get to know them first.

[Destiel_24]

When I hear someone talking about feminism, against transphobia, lgbtphobia, sexism and racism, or criticising gender roles and stereotypes. Just that kind of things and not trying to impress, I find it lovely

[thimmslicc]

His voice. His demeanor.
His appearance. His politeness

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I would go for personality. If their appearance tells me something about their personality, then I'd be attracted to that as well.

[ririissleepy]

Good manners. If he offers help when I am struggling is nice to the people around him doesn't swear too much or just seems to care about chivalry it definetly grabs my attention.

[PinkGraffiti]

Appearance, how they carry themselves, and intelligence.

[luvstoned4him]

looks in the first part then personality but overall personality wins

[Yads_Is_Back]

If he's mysterious in some way. If there's something I just can't figure out

[mimi051998]

Cute face, same goals, great personality, interesting hobbies, nice body, can dress and can hold a conversation.

[lanadelrey25]

The face, if it's attractive to me. Then how they speak, are they eloquent and calm? Or loud and stupid?

[DizzyDesii]

Cute face, nice arms/chest, same goals/beliefs/interests/past experiences

[OldSchool_Metalhead]

Personality. Looks too of course, but he's not gonna hold my attention long if he's a creep or a jackass

[PrinceNeo]

Initial attention is titties the thing that holds my attention is the eyes and the smile if there's no smile my interest disappears but pretty eyes and it keeps smile and a nice pair of tits 👌 attention is on lock.

[zollo]

If he's really good at something I'm into like Art or Animation I'll stick to him like glue.

[TheAfrikan]

AS LONG AS SHE,
1. She is respectful
2. Sense of humour.
3. Being stylish.
4. Nice personality.
5. Believer
6. Being smart in the brains.

[Black_Guy]

If she's different to what I'm use to. Specifics would probably complicate this but yeah if I'm use to huns that want attention and constant communication then a girl who doesn't need all of that is going to command my attention.

[menina]

I would say looks, virtues, confidence, intelligence and passion.

[postempestas]

How sexy they are and their intelligence, intelligence means lots of virtues in one.

[Niya2006]

Smile
personality
Also like a guy that is kinda hard to read

[Avicenna]

A friendly personality or something interesting and engaging about her

[meeso13]

Everything total package demeanor not just one particular body part or one action

[JoyGirl]

Everything @DizzyDesii said, but also his voice. 😌

[jizzyjay]

When they can make smart decisions like not jumping to conclusions

[Mellifluous_]

If they're like @Sonorous 🐒

[FictionalCharacter]

Their looks and mannerism.

[Hazelstar99]

If he's funny and genuine.

[Girl22_]

Personality and how they treat those around them

[TheLittleInnocent]

Sense of fashion and humour.

[NopeWhatTime]

Intelligence, humor, charisma, personality

[TremorJay]

Long form conversation

[Ally247]

How they act around kids

[Curabyron]

Enthusiasm, outgoing and friendlyness

[EssenceOfLight]

The spark I feel while looking in girl's eyes

[Keble]

Eyes. Eyes are a big one.

[itzmera]

the way they carry themselves

[OceanMelon]

Sense of humor or personality

[Justneedtokno]

Shoulders beard nice smile voice

[icepenguin]

If he's funny, interesting, and asks questions?

[90sVibe]

Communication skills

[ILoveAnime]

Looks haha

[scarlett774]

Eyes

[jimmy2]

They can