What About A Girl Or Guy Grabs And Holds Your Attention?

[Shuri]

Proper grammar and sentence structure, and I don't say that because I'm an English teacher. I hate when guys can't write or speak well. It is such a turn off, and they sound dumb as hell. Physically, it's a guy that works with his hands. My job makes people think I should be with a lawyer or an accountant or something, but my boyfriend is a construction inspector, and it is suuuuuuuch a turn on.

[applebottomjeans]

When he is really passionate about something, anything really, i would literally listen to him talk about it for hours , i am not very talkative and i like listening more. Also if we have similar interests and we can just vibe together ig

[jennifer_bloom]

Decency and Class and Grace

[Majesty101]

First and foremost: eyes. I can see a lot in the eyes of others, I see their soul, their intent, their inner child, and tons more, so what I see in someone's eyes will definitely hold my attention. I'm short as well, so a guy's height will definitely grab my attention.
Other than that,
physically: aura, smile, hands, style, and stature...
emotionally: expression, confidence, self-respect, self-love, charm, the ability to love unconditionally and be loved unconditionally and vulnerability...
And beyond all topics, passion gains my attention the most.

[art_hoe]

confidence, the how loud they are (i like loud people, complete contrast from a shy quiet me xd) tall girls and tall guys tho it don't matter too much to me, if you're 1 cm taller than me its enough
style is so cool, i love alt styles but I don't know is it like a relationship thing attractive or whatever

personality is i thinks something you get to know through time so i don't think you can say that's something that garbs your attention at first glance, but if i get to know the person it is very much important

similarities, im online a lot so i meet people similar to em quite easily tho i like contrast in certain things yet mutual understanding and relatability on others

[TessCasie]

Guys: Butt, charm, smile, eyes, how he expresses himself while talking to me, how he makes me feel when I am around him, does he make me feel nice about myself but also I love men who have that demeanor in them to show he is a man and your a woman. Like the way he says stuff incase he disagrees with my opinion, he doesn't demean me or say things like "you sound so ignorant" instead he will express it in a way very polished and authoritative without making me feel low or stupid about myself. That's a kind of man any girl would love to get attention from.

[Liya0078]

1- I like to see when effort was put in to a guys appearance ( clean clothing, well coordinated, clear skin)
2- eyes that look kind (usually brown) and Pretty hands (slim fingers with nice nail beds)
3- Easy going personality.
4- a Realistic plan about his future.
5- Intelligence is a big factor. He could have 10/10 appearance, but if he sounds stupid, drops him to a 0 very quickly.

[Lily654]

Something that grabs my attention in a guy is their personality. If they are nice, i would probably want to hang out with them. If you are refering to crushes, then it takes me a long time to develop one. I have to get to know them first.

[Destiel_24]

When I hear someone talking about feminism, against transphobia, lgbtphobia, sexism and racism, or criticising gender roles and stereotypes. Just that kind of things and not trying to impress, I find it lovely

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I would go for personality. If their appearance tells me something about their personality, then I'd be attracted to that as well.

[ririissleepy]

Good manners. If he offers help when I am struggling is nice to the people around him doesn't swear too much or just seems to care about chivalry it definetly grabs my attention.

[Black_Guy]

If she's different to what I'm use to. Specifics would probably complicate this but yeah if I'm use to huns that want attention and constant communication then a girl who doesn't need all of that is going to command my attention.

[thimmslicc]

His voice. His demeanor.
His appearance. His politeness

[PinkGraffiti]

Appearance, how they carry themselves, and intelligence.

[Inquisitive3]

I will gush about my current crush:

Intelligence, wit, humble yet confident, wise, talented, passionate about something, strong willpower, good person in general.

[Iwasthinkingif]

1) Good hygiene
2) Confidence
3) Respectful behavior
4) Humor
5) Ambition / passion for something
6) Open minded
7) Honesty
8) Kindness , a good heart

[luvstoned4him]

looks in the first part then personality but overall personality wins

[Yads_Is_Back]

If he's mysterious in some way. If there's something I just can't figure out

[mimi051998]

Cute face, same goals, great personality, interesting hobbies, nice body, can dress and can hold a conversation.

[lanadelrey25]

The face, if it's attractive to me. Then how they speak, are they eloquent and calm? Or loud and stupid?

[DizzyDesii]

Cute face, nice arms/chest, same goals/beliefs/interests/past experiences

[Medlife]

All of the above. I have a type. Like all men and women. I sometimes waver off it but I always realize I am not happy and simply go back to my type.