So rude! I understand your frustration. I really don't wanna hear about their love life. It is hurtful to listen to all the ladies he is flirting with when he didn't choose me.
I am sorry that it happened to you. People should be more nice when rejecting someone. Seems like a horrible women the first one. Good that you threw her wallet in the trash. Hope she had a lot of money in it.
Not really in the trash just on top as it was the only place to put it except back on the ground.
I don't mind the rejections actually. It just leading me on that hurts. It feels like everything was all in my head. When they reject me I move on. Not knowing hurts more.
Yeah, the rejection doesn't bother me. Like you said it is the glimmer of hope and then nothing. We had been friends for years, or at least I thought we were friends. Now that I think about it, I have been burned by her more than once and I was just too nice to care. But, things are different now. She told a friend of ours to tell me hey a while back and my reply was she could go jump off a cliff.
OMG. That's horrible.
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Maybe she was asexual?
I don't think so. She has three children, was married twice, and I think she got off with a vibrator on a regular basis.
Needless to say our relationship never got back to normal afterwards. It never recovered and we broke up. I felt so embarassed for loving her more than she did.
He probably did like you, but was too much of a coward.
He really was! Major turn off.
Guys say they want honesty but they actuwlly dont. You should take rejection as it is a vlear no. What is the point of her saying she thinks you're ugly (to her) ? what good that is? it will only make u bitter n insecureI always reject guys honesty saying lile sorry ur not my type. As honest and nice as possible but veing fully honest isn't really best
@devilish-cutie Ummm how would you know woman? I'm the guy I just said I'd like honesty when I'm honest with my feelings. I would be happy to if it was a clear no that's exactly what I want a clear no not some made up rubbish don't leave me hanging with some random quote. "Sorry your not my type" is perfect that's a no. Saying "I don't know you very well" what does that mean? So if I got to know her it would be fine?
I agree on the fact it should be clear no n i do gwt you. But knowing women are bwing vague not to hurt guys feelings so if its unclear like thqt than take it as no...
@devilish-cutie... did someone change your e to a w? LOL I would rather she be harsher about what she doesn't like. So I know what's wrong I mean sure avoiding telling us may stop hurt us but we know you said no because there's something you don't like regardless.
Just a horrible person. I don't think he will treat anyone nicely. Feel sorry for anyone ending up with him.
What’s worse is I actually begged him to take me back. We got back together for a little bit but he was just trying to see how far I would go to keep him. Then he did it again with his friends. Not my proudest moment, but at least I learned something.
Hopefully you didn't take his words to heart? That's awful.
@GingerGuy it depends. I’m still single and sometimes I wonder if maybe he was right. I know he was being mean, but that doesn’t mean he wasn’t also telling the truth. My life is full of mistakes and maybe I’m just “damaged goods” as some people have told me.
No, everyone has baggage and problems. He wasn't worthy of your love.
@GingerGuy that’s nice to hear. There are a lot of people who say “you’re a slut and why would anyone want to be with you?” I made mistakes, a lot of mistakes, and maybe I’m not girlfriend material, but I wish someone decent would give me the chance. Too many jerks will say they don’t have a problem with my past and then break up with me because of it. And I’m just left heartbroken and a little more damaged than I was before.
He is just a racist, good riddance.
Having a preference is racist? Not liking black girls is no different that not liking short girls, red heads, flat chested, over wight girls, etc.
Dismissing a whole race isn’t a preference by definition is to prefer something over others so no it’s not the same as not liking a whole race of women all black women don’t look the same either...
I wouldn’t take it so hard. Many people have a preference to which race attracts them more or some not at all. I wouldn’t call this racist at all. They don’t hate your race, they are saying they just aren’t attracted to it and might have thought it was even nicer than saying straight out “I’m not attracted to you” personally
Again by definition a preference is to prefer something over others not dismissing a whole race of people... again black woman come in many shades shapes and have many different features so it is racist to decide a entire race of people are unattractive And I’d prefer to be told that I’m not found attractive vs you think all black woman are ugly
@ronaldsnugs It is not a nicer rejection when you are told that someone doesn't like your race. Race is not a preference.
Okay whatever. I tried to explain to you what it meant but if you want to attack everyone that tried to help and just insist insist insist on one idea that you also want to believe the whole world also has.. then I can’t help you. Not everyone thinks like you, it’s not the end of the world. Bye
Attack? 😂😂😁no one was attacked I simply explained and she did too and now your butt hurt
Alrighty... b*tch 🤣
😂😂😂 awww are you a child?
You 2 , go out there and try to make the world believe what you do. Have fun with that. The rest of us will understand others don’t all think like you b*tches
Here’s facts. You’re a drunk whore that hits on guys with gfs. ☺️
😂😂😂 yeah I’m such a whore because I flirted with someone while I was drunk but I guess that’s better then being racist loooooool
@ronaldsnugs What is wrong with you? You went from 0 to 100 on crazy level. Calling women b*****s is a real classic act. Don't tell people how they should or not should feel when it comes to race problems.
Lol if it’s not your looks it’s those shitty personalities you have 🤣
Melody , yes, whore. You won’t change my mind. You are a complete and total whore
@ronaldsnugs Yeah we are the ones with a shitty personality LOL LOL LOL.
Whore no slut yes 😂😂
I feel you. But not everyone is gonna choose us. Just think about the people you didn't like in your life.
None really come to mind. No girl has actually professed their desire to be with me, perhaps because they think that guys make all of the moves, and the ones that did secretly like me could've probably had me if they either put more of an effort in. But they didn't.
I don't get men. They will sleep with someone they don't find attractive.
Well I didn't sleep with him, I only wanted to know if he liked me too and that's what he said. I don't get men either.
If it helps, I don't get that either. I can't sleep with someone I'm not somewhat attracted to, even if it's only physical. Maybe that was what he meant?
@GingerGuy he wanted to have sex with me. But didn't want a relationship. He wasn't attracted to me, he didn't like me at all in that way. He didn't want to hurt me. All I asked him was if he liked me back. That's the response he gave. It's so far back and I was in tears when he told me this so I only remember fragments.
Why are people so mean when they reject someone. Awful.
Lol if guys heard a girl say that he would still sleep with her
LOL! That's karma for you I guess
It also sucks because I fell behind the other guy because I wanted to do it face to face instead of just texting her.
I did that to a guy. I just didn't want to lead him on by being in his life.
Yeah, I was young and didn't actually know anything. Thinking back I didn't actually like him. He still lead me on after that.
Wow, he really was dick and a jerk.
Do you know why?
@Bandit74: It was when she and I were very young, so she had probably never been asked out by a guy, let alone a foreign guy in front of her friends.
Yes we do. Everyone who tries get rejected.