For real lol. It seems like women with dark features can’t win and are always a seconde choice.
I’m a brunette with a tanned skin and brown eyes, and men with the same coloring as me, prefer blondes with light eyes “because opposites attracts”, while it’s total bullshit because even the men with light eyes and light hair are more attracted to blondes and their excuse is: “ because it’s bIoLoGY to be more attracted to your kind”, if it is true then why are most ethnic men and black men mostly attracted to lightskin blonde women? 🤨
there is nothing wrong with loving blondes more but why are they using excuses like “ oh I love blondes cause I have dark features and opposites attracts” and the “ I love women with blue eyes cause I also have blue eyes and I wanna pass my genes”, just say that they’re the ultimate beauty standard instead of lying!
Whaaaat? We are talking about the black color, Its the best color for man or woman, in causal Wearing and in professional. Everyone prefer black color because it suits best on everything. its professional color. Now let me clear your misconception, You might not know but Black color, I am talking about African people who are more black than any other race of human on earth. Scientists believe Origin of life was from Africa and there are a lot of proof that support it. Like African countries have most adaptiable weather condition for mammals including humans of course. And humans distributed to different continents from Africa and adapted according to their climate conditions. Its an very interesting fact that, African people have overall better immunity, Natural power and very developed muscles. Which I like the most is that African man and women have most dominant traits on their gene. If they give birth to a child they it's either going to black or will have those type of hairs or will have that natural powerful muscles. And a lot of other amazing genes which the whole world lacks. As for attraction to blonde thing, I love latino they are brownish like Indias. And have Burnett hair and I have black hair myself. Those with blonde hair and skin have much much much higher chances of skin disease like skin cancer. See, They might look alluring to may guys but they have to pay its price. And what we should look in a person is what's he is from inside. 30 is the peak for everyone's beauty and it's all down the hill after 30. So, why we have to stuck with the illusion named beauty or looks. Real beauty is from inside a person. See people from inside. And if they are good, the Inner beauty will not be a thing for you anymore. I have friends who are not good looking. But I love them. They are true friends. They will help me from all they have. And during bad times, when I can't talk to family about my problems these Friends we're savious for me! Give MHO is you like the answer, It was all coming from the heart. And I can guarantee there are millions would wait for you in line if they know you who you are.
This is stupid and inaccurate. Chances are the reason why a guy isn't dating you is for reasons completely unrelated to hair color. I mean honestly, that is a joke in every twobit sitcom out their, that a woman change her hair color, style etc. and the guy doesn't notice it (to the chagrin of the woman). Its a trope for a reason, because 99% of men don't give a flying fuck about her hair color. I prefer brunettes and redheads, doesn't mean I would fucking hesitate to date a girl with blonde hair because guys are not picky, its not a make or break, its not even a secondary desire, or a third or a fourth. So its not your hair, its you, you are doing something that is making guys not want to be with you.
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I'm bi, but not a man. Take it with a grain of salt as you will. I prefer darker features. I see a lot of people with people that prefer dark features. Some do like lighter, but there is just something that draws me to the darker features. Not that lighter features are less beautiful, it is just a preference. I think darker hair defines a face more. I LOVE dark eyes, they seem so deep. Skin tones, not as big of a deal to me. I think all in that spectrum are good, they all seem so beautiful and unique.
I've also seen a lot of lighter women complain about how they can't keep up with how beautiful and wanted darker women are. Just be confident and do the hardest thing. Appreciate your body features and love yourself more. Comparing to others never ends well.
People say blond hair and blue eyes are the hallmark of western beauty, but tanning is so popular that even the president does it. Every blonde chic ever wants to go work on their tan. I just don’t see it. Tan and olive skinned are considered positive and exotic. Pasty and white are not positive. They’re insults these days.
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Personally I prefer long black hair. I have blue green eyes and brass colored hair. I like black hair with Green eyes, but that's rare. Most thr black haired women I've met were Asian or Middle Eastern, though I've met very few European. Most women with Black hair have Brown eyes, so I've seen the beauty in it. Some African American women have long black hair, but it's rarer. I don't preference off skin color, but am drawn to black hair. My second favorite color is deep red. Never really been into blondes, not that it can't be attractive, but it's not my preference.
I prefer darker girls. I do like white girls too but I’m not into blonde girls. I like girls with dark hair.
I love all kinds of women all races are beautiful and I’d be lucky to have any beautiful woman regardless of her race.
Also I’ve seen some study somewhere that said that women prefer white men, but men in general prefer a wider range of women. So really, when it comes to people having a preference for whites, it’s women who do that, and to a lesser degree men.
If that's true "Asians" Rather East, and West and everything in between wouldn't be all the rage with a lot of men.. And we know vast majority of them have black and brown hair.. Me personally I prefer brunette women, I never the obsession over blondes.. Especially since some women look weird with blonde hair.
There cannot be one standard, beauty is fairly subjective. Sometimes it's just the Aura try forgetting standards this or that and focus on what makes your life feel beautiful and as time passes the right one will get attracted to you 🌹👍
Well and genes thing usually it's the excuse of women 😂
"black men mostly attracted to lightskin blonde women" 🤔 That's an interesting "fact" to pull straight from your ass. & Just because a man chooses a blonde pale over YOU doesn't mean it's the same for "most" men.
I don’t like blonde hair, it’s my least favorite color. Brown eyes are my least favorite eye color, someone once told me they have brown eyes cause they were full of shit, forever turned me off to them. I love white skin but it’s been tanned that’s showing it’s been damaged and I don’t like tan skin at all.
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I have never noticed this. I attract many different kind of males, all shapes, sizes, races, hair colors, eye colors. They don't seem to care about my skin color too much, I've been dark blonde, a ver light grayish blonde, I've had strawberry blond and I've had a few brown shades. And in all stages I've still attracted different kind of guys.
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Dchrls78104 | 3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.
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Talking such garbage shows low self respect. Value yourself, know your worth, avoid comparing yourself with others, and if you date, look for a man who values you as you are. Also, make sure that you have the qualities that would attract to you the kind of man you want.
Here's the thing I avoid blonde women. I find they are either dramatic, needy, or boring. Red heads are too crazy and girls who colour their hair seem to have baggage. Brunettes are for me and tanned skin is sooooo sexy. I wrote a poem about this girl I liked and literally in it, it says her skin is the color of mocha. Soooo I think all these guys going for lighter shichs are missing out
I would take a biological guess and suggest that because dark hair, eyes, and skin tone are genetically more dominant, there is a greater scarcity and demand for blonde and light women? Only a small minority of women are real blondes.
I am white skin, blue-gray eyes and dark brown hair, and prefer blondes too.
This is a hot crock of shit. Beta males go for blondes. Don't worry about a thing girl, your looks serve as a natural filter to keep the weak men out. Only the strongest of men dare to approach the lady with raven black hair or brown hair. She is the pinnacle of female attraction. It's the same phenomenon seen with tall women, they only get alpha males. So be grateful you were born unique and not a basic girl.
I couldn't tell if you meant you were black or just Mediterranean-looking, but I don't agree with your points, at all. This all sounds like projection.
My girlfriend for 3 years has black hair with green eyes and tanned skin not White nor Black I never liked blonde girls because my mom is blonde and it reminds me of her But once in my life i did date pure Asian girl for 5 years
I love women all shapes and sizes colors and creeds tall one short ones round ones thin ones from blonde to brunette redhead to blue to purple hair doesn't matter women are beautiful and I love each and every one of you
Pretty much all the guys I know like dark hair and eyes over blondes so I don't know who you're running into.
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Liam_Hayden | 3.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.
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I have green eyes and if it isn't surfing season I will also have fairly pale skin. I have no issue dating dark-skinned girls. I care about who she is, not how much melanin her skin has or what color hair or color eyes she has.
Meh people have preferences brunettes still find partners just because you find it hard don't mean its not possible statisticly white guys are the most attracted group yet even they complain about dating everyone has a hard time dating is not easy
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Yeah but they’re always a seconde choice. I don’t want a man to choose me just because he can’t get a blonde yet I see many women wanting a man cause he’s “ dark and handsome” and there are women who are attracted to blonde men as much as darker men. While men of every ethnicity seems to favor white light blonde women
Black guys are never attracted to me so I think you need to second think this? Also it all depends on a person’s preference. There are a lot of pale and blonde guys out there with dark women and vis versa!
What are you talking about, I loves me some brunette girls. Dark-haired girls are goals. Maybe this is a "you problem" and revolves more around your personality than looks.
I think your features are much more desirable than others in my opinion. I would love to find a woman with your complexion. You are a rare woman that many men out there would treasure!
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It's funny, I just read another question here about why men prefer blondes. lol
No your problem is you want a white man because you feel white is superior. Rid them hateful demons out and you’ll feel happier
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I don’t feel that white is superior, cause I also asked some mixed men and black men who rejected me cause they were drooling over a blonde and a redhead with light eyes
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I don’t care about light men wanting light women cause at least they have the excuse of wanting kids to look like them, but it pissed me off when guys like me say they prefer lighter women cause opposites attracts while it’s untrue. They just want the lighter girls cause they’re seen as prettier and they would still be attracted to them if they were as white and as light as them.
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Those mixed and black guys were white washed. White washed men or women aren’t worth it. I think tanned women are more attractive than white women. Not everyone’s the same
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