How should men who can’t get dates deal with it and find what they’re doing wrong without being labelled a sexist or mysoginist?

- I wish I could offer you advice, but I myself don’t really understand how the whole dating thing is supposed to work. It seems like a lot of pressure to be physically intimate with someone after knowing then for a very short period of time.
I feel uncomfortable with the whole process and would probably say no even if I was attracted to someone right now because of that. I don’t know if I’m normal that way, or abnormal that way. I hope that my own personal hang ups and intimidation at the idea of a relationship aren’t taken as a personal rejection by anyone.Is this still revelant?- Asker1 y
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I don’t know. I don’t believe in having sex before marriage and I’ve been in 1 short relationship in my life. The focus on sexual attraction is intimidating. I don’t know how I’d handle it if someone showed blatant sexual interest. And I think that’s because I’m not sure, given my determination not to have sex outside of marriage, where the line is and what I should or should not allow approaching that line. I’m not super confident in my appearance. I just lost 25 lbs and now have a healthy BMI again, so I know I look better than I have in a long time, but I’m insecure by nature, not circumstance, so sexual innuendo will probably make me self conscious and want to retreat.
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- They should stfu and listen to advice when it's offered. If they want different results they need to do different things. All the time they sit there with a giant ego and not willing to change anything only hurts themIs this still revelant?
Fair. All I can tell you is its something you're saying or doing. Or not.
Approach girls. All kinds.
- How far do u get with dating as to talking to womenIs this still revelant?
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No daring is always hard the same way there are many women you would reject as you are not attracted to them no?
Then that shows your desperate and probably plays a factor into why women are not attracted to you nobody wants a partner that would date anybody
But you have just explained a major issue women won't date guys with no self worth as a standard nobody is asking you to be picky but if they can sense you dont value yourself why would they want to date you
Yet from what u have said here already it dont seem you do value yourself u have already said you would date any girl that said yes even if u was jot attracted to them
Honestly I would continue to look thats just it again dating is never easy but yes some find it harder then others I got my first date at 22
I started to act more confidant and stopped caring what others thought about me I use to complain women didn't like me yet I was not aware of when women did like me because I was too afraid to approach them
Well ofc it will be frustrating but again finding someone you are attracted to that they are equally attracted to you and in the right head space for a relationship is not easy
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