My boyfriend always took hundred pics of his exes everytime they went out but he barely took pic of me. Is it alright to be upset?

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So I notice that he took so many pics of his exes when they went out together, like he took every second when they posed. He never does that when we go out together. He barely takes pic of me and even he does, it's only 2 or 3. Is it okay to be upset?

Answer 1

Itsok2behapp-e | 164 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

Yes, but only for a very short time whilst you read this.

You're not her. She's the ex. You're the present.

What's a picture worth anyway?

It can be lost, misplaced, shredded, deleted, back up lost, account deleted where it was posted etc.

However, all the time you spend with him you're writing to your brain thousands upon thousands of 'pictures' which you'll cherish always as your memories.

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Sometimes I like to compare myself with them like why he treats me so differently than me and etc. How can I stop comparing myself?
Itsok2behapp-e

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If he were to carry on as he did in the past then at some point you too will be an ex.

There's a possibility that in his mind if he took a photo this very second, that could be the very last one. Maybe he doesn't want to do that with you?

People can behave differently when with other people. Maybe you bring out something in him that tells him he doesn't need to document/capture every moment with you in a picture.

That doesn't mean he loves you any less!

Focus on you and him. That's what matters the most. Not what she/she before she did/didn't do.

You can stop comparing yourself to others and reflect on are you the very best version of you that you could be? Focus on that instead.
Asker

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I always feel like he did that because he wanted to capture as many moments as possible with them. Took many pics so he will not forget and still has memories
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Itsok2behapp-e

1 y
That's true. Memory can potentially degrade over time.

We the people don't know him like you do. If you really must know, ask him if you feel this will help you move on.
Itsok2behapp-e

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Thank you for Superb Opinion :-)

Answer 2

Asker

Sometimes I like to compare myself with them like why he treats me so differently than me and etc. How can I stop comparing myself?

Answer 3

Itsok2behapp-e

If he were to carry on as he did in the past then at some point you too will be an ex.

There's a possibility that in his mind if he took a photo this very second, that could be the very last one. Maybe he doesn't want to do that with you?

People can behave differently when with other people. Maybe you bring out something in him that tells him he doesn't need to document/capture every moment with you in a picture.

That doesn't mean he loves you any less!

Focus on you and him. That's what matters the most. Not what she/she before she did/didn't do.

You can stop comparing yourself to others and reflect on are you the very best version of you that you could be? Focus on that instead.

Answer 4

Asker

I always feel like he did that because he wanted to capture as many moments as possible with them. Took many pics so he will not forget and still has memories

Answer 5

Itsok2behapp-e

That's true. Memory can potentially degrade over time.

We the people don't know him like you do. If you really must know, ask him if you feel this will help you move on.

Answer 6

Itsok2behapp-e

Thank you for Superb Opinion :-)

Answer 7

that1guy19

Xper 4

That seems strange. What kind of pictures did he used to take? Maybe they just did more photogenic things?🤷

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For example when they went to the beach, she'd pose and he took pics of her. He took pics of their feet on the sand, her swimming and etc but he never takes pics of me
that1guy19

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Do you do/go places like they did
Asker

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We don't go out so much but yes sometimes we go out and he just took maybe 3 pics and that's it

Answer 8

Asker

For example when they went to the beach, she'd pose and he took pics of her. He took pics of their feet on the sand, her swimming and etc but he never takes pics of me

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that1guy19

Do you do/go places like they did

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Asker

We don't go out so much but yes sometimes we go out and he just took maybe 3 pics and that's it

My boyfriend always took hundred pics of his exes everytime they went out but he barely took pic of me. Is it alright to be upset?

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