You are right. The way I’m living right now. I feel like a failure because I haven’t got a girlfriend yet and other people my age do. That’s what made me depressed
Everyone else has one and it makes me jealous when I see them have something that I don’t. Like I could care less if they have more money and a better car. But the fact that they get a girl easily and I don’t makes me feel like there’s something wrong with me. Like what am I doing wrong that they are doing right. It makes me feel like fate is against me and I’m fated to be alone forever.
Yeah so you tie your self-esteem with having a girlfriend. So having a girlfriend is more an accomplishment for your self-esteem.You shouldn't blame it on yourself. You're still very young and just haven't met the right one yet. Nothing wrong about that. People who are single aren't failures. It just means they're not ready/don't want to or haven't found anyone.So yeah I would disassociate your self-esteem from relationships and work on yourself first. Get a hobby, work, study, sport, friends etc and a girlfriend will come eventually.Ofcourse you can keep your eyes open. Maybe date a little bit, but don't blame yourself when it's not happening right away, because it's not completely in your power.
It’s just so tough because the situation I’m in rn makes me feel like shit. Can I dm u on gag about a girl. U seem to have experience in relationships.
I don't have too much experience, but I can try to help. Go ahead and dm me if you want.
Alright I’ll follow u
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But it’s just so annoying. Like I’m in a situation right now and I don't know what to do. Can I dim you on gag. Maybe you can help with this girl
Great opinion. Good girl.