Me and my boyfriendd love eachother but he's cheap and poor?

[Anonymous]

Relationships rarely survive poverty. Even if they do, it's a very unhappy relationship

These people who say money is not most important, and they would choose love over money have obviously never experienced real poverty in life. There's more than a feeling of love to make a relationship happy with succesful. When you're broke, you lose your dignity and self-respect. Society looks down on you. It's not easy getting out of the gutter once you're down there.

I have experienced true poverty, and i would never chose love over money.
Happiness is only a temporary emotion, it's not a permanent state. No one is happy 24/7. But money can buy contentment , and a decent way of life. It can also buy you happiness , depending on what makes you feel unhappy. Money can buy you better physical and mental health.

I remember being so poor that I had holes in my shoes and clothes. I was only 6 stone in weight because I was so hungry. I couldn't go for job interviews, because I couldn't afford decent clothes. Being that poor causes depression too. I was unhealthy and unhappy because I couldn't afford the necessities in life to be physically healthy and look presentable. Money could boght me that happiness. It bought back my dignity, my self-respect and the respect of society

Now I have money, I'm very happy and content. Love dies in time, either because it fades over time or the person who loves you dies. But money can last you're lifetime.

Starting a relationship with someone if you're both broke is doomed from the start

[Warmapplecrumble]

Depends what makes you happy, some women might want to live in the wilderness, some hiking on mountains, some being housewife's, some living like they're in a action movie, some might like to fine dine and live in a castle.
What makes you happy?

[ShadezMcgee]

So what you are saying is that you are looking for validation that you want to dump him because of it without feeling guilty under the guise of "I love him, but..."

You don't love him, clearly. Cooter up and end it.

[michael1469]

Words to live by. Drop the zero and get with a hero.

[Skankhunt]

It's not about money. Money can't buy happiness. If you think money is important to you, you should marry a rich man. If you really love him, money should't matter to you. Sounds like you are materialistic.

[offendedsorbet]

Being cheap kinda comes along with being poor. If this is an issue for you I don't think you really love him.

[CapnHawk]

You either accept or go your own way. The decision is yours.

[Anonymous]

Depends how important it is to you I guess? lol Do you love him anyway? And you never know, that might change in time. Is he looking for a job or other employment?

[Me080Mo]

Money is a way of happiness but not everything. There are many poor guys are better than rich men. Unless you want to be with a rich guy that treats you like garbage but has money then go ahead look for him.

[magiusX26]

sounds a little mean-hearted. anyways, what is your actual question?

[Dave31989]

if he's poor he'll BE CHEAP

why be around a guy who has no money?

[Drumlin2001]

Sounds like he's not the man for you if you're materialistic

[Anonymous]

Well, they say love is blind. You shouldn't judge a man by the money he has. Judge him by what he does for you and how much he respects you. You shouldn't be that materialistic. If you truly love him , you'll find peace even if you're not wealthy.

[In_Trance]

So what's your question?

[Jakeofalltrades93]

are you asking a question

[Anonymous]

He might just be using you for sex and money