Let me show you some place I've been before, that I think would be great for our next date*pulls out phone*Hey, where you going?
@Unit1 but if they said that you would know what they were doing right 🤔 and they ain't even finished dinner yet, isn't it a little presumptuous to be planning the next date 🤣🤣 and you know damn well that's not what she's doing, she probably planning the next date alright, with someone else, our checking up on her man and kids at home 🤣🤣🤣
My point is most people are too trigger happy or jumping the gun. I even heard an opinion around here (from a blue) that even if it's just to check the time/date he'd leave her on the spot.Nothing surprises me.
@Unit1 you don't think it's rude to just be on your phone throughout dinner? Or on a date period? Too many people do that these days... Can't even do anything without being on their phone... That ain't being trigger happy... That's giving them more time for their phone cuz obviously that means more to them
You don't understand.I'm saying there are legitimate reasons for phones to be used here and there but being glued to them, that's a problem.
@Unit1 then it's called "excuse me I'm so sorry, but I really have to take this call"... Or "I need to check on the kids/babysitter"... But again, that's not what usually happens... They usually checking notifications, texts, etc
Maybe. I didn't have this problem before but then again, women aren't gonna be going out with me often 😐
I don't get that problem I'm a prick I'll just eat it or something if they keep on lol
@mrgspoter right way your meal and theirs 🤣 "oh sorry, did you want that, figured you were in your phone cuz you weren't hungry, my bad"🤣
No I just act shy so I might make a scene when she trys to take it back be like ahh dam your trying to kill me women, ahh
What 😨 nobody told me I could not
1- Irrelevant, being glued to ones phone is rude and shows lack of interest2- Irrelevant Being engaging is a two way street, If she is there to be on her phone she should not have come at all3- Her actions would indicate no.4- No girl is hot enough to suffer that kind of disrespect. I stand by what i said, i would leave her with her half of the check and block her. If i were an asshole, i would leave her with the whole check, but im not an asshole.
Hey, if she's hot and wants to hook up I have no problem with her being on the phone. Would I have an exclusive relationship with her? Probably not. But if she's hot and wants to get down--game on.Also a good reason to at least make out before planning a dinner date. At least then you know she's interested enough to get it on.
These questions are good if you want to improve your game, apart from the last one, to which the answer is always "no".
@Barbaric The answer to the last one is most definitely not always no. If she's super model hot and if she's down to fuck, I don't give a damn if she's on her phone all the way through dinner. I'll put up with that if she's going to service me afterwards.
thanks for MHO!
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You would pay? Why? Isn't it better, if your being disrespected and she's wasting your time to serve justice and leave her with the whole tab?
@PushOrganic If it is a first date, I have a favorite restaurant for first dates. If she doesn't pay her share of the tab, there are potential consequences for me with a criminal complaint for defrauding an innkeeper, and with the restaurant not letting me return. They know who I am because I have made a reservation. For me, paying the tab is not a big deal.
I agree with this
Well you sir are wrong I have done very well with dinner dates but I always split the check though
I turned 26 today. I never had time for that BS to begin with 😂😂😂
On the bright side you could get away without her noticing before the check is due. Wink, wink.
@RoastedToast lmao well she shouldve been payin for her portion of the meal anyways because i’d only pay for my half
im not asshole enough to leave her with the whole check lol.
Shouldve been the arrangement before the date began
agreed but if it is not, i will reach out to the server split the check, pay my part, and leave.
It would've been funny I'd you did though 😂
If you did"
I’ve had adult woman do this to me.
I have a woman do this to me as well @guesswhoseback
Why do you think it happened / happens? @Sparda20xx @guesswhoseback
She wasn't interested in me. She just wanted a free meal.
@Sparda20xx yeah she wanted attention. If her body language looks uncomfortable or TOO comfortable that’s a bad sign. If she likes you she will be careful about what she says and how cavalier she acts.
Women do this shit all the time. While I realize they have friends checking up on them.
@guesswhoseback I think it’s good that friends check in because their are some scumbags out there. However, glued to the phone? My girlfriend has a friend who is not well mentally. She texts her once to check on her. Once. Her friend did the same thing when we went on our first date.
@ShootShootBangBang it’s just over the top. Technology and digitization has really brought out the worst in women. It lets them over indulge in their insecurities and vanities. Really how often do guys do this on first dates?
@guesswhoseback depends on the guy. I have seen it though. In both instances I think over texting is very rude.
@ShootShootBangBang women do get more leeway to do this shit.
I hate bashing on girls all the time on GAG. Guys have their shortcomings too. But it just seems like in the initial stages of dating women have MUCH more power than men in the western world (when all is equal). Why is that a semi attractive to attractive women have much more pull than their equal male counterparts with this?
@guesswhoseback a lot of men just bash women anymore. They are called MGtOW and Red Pills.
Lol I love this
So wait,, you said you'd vanish, so you gave the same answer then why are you making justifications for it on my answer 🤔 cuz maybe she's looking up where you could all go on your next date, but you vanished 🤷🏼♀️🤣🤣🤣
@Brainsbeforebeauty This is assuming she is almost literally glued to her phone E. G. She's looking at her screen more than not. I'm not gonna stand up and vanish if she checks what time it is or her banks balance or translate some words.
Okay, so why don't you get my answer was with the same mindset 🤷🏼♀️ me thinks you just like to argue with me 🤣🤣🤣
@Brainsbeforebeauty "the date would be over the minute the phone came out... "
"she stayed glued to her phone?""You take her out to dinner and she stays glued to her phone the whole time. What's your next move?"... So yeah, if the phone came out for those purposes, I'm not waiting for the check to come, which didn't you say same thing 🤔🤔
@Brainsbeforebeauty I take words literally. Especially from consistent folks. Maybe I'm just that stern but now you know.🤑😝
And I meant it , based on description of question... You the one that tried to flip the situation, but my answer was based off what the op described as was yours right, and we basically said the same thing, just with different words... So how is it different 🤷🏼♀️
@Brainsbeforebeauty Whatever i guess. Do you want a hug or something? *pulls phone out to check time*
🤣🤣 anyone that times a hug... Nother red flag 🤣🤣🤣 so what if they check the time during sex 🤔🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Brainsbeforebeauty Suit yourself. If you need me, holla.by the way - the girls I hired to give me an erotic massage had their phone next to the bed to track the time.
Well see there you go... I don't pay for "massages" and if he checking the phone during "massage" time, I'll just find a different "masseuse" 🤣🤣🤣
@Brainsbeforebeauty Then you won't get massages :>
Not true lolol any "massages" I've ever gotten/given... Their phone the last thing on their mind 😉😋